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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
My dad's oncologist died last year and it was weirdly personal to me and my stepmom. My stepmom wrote a long letter to his widow about the impact her husband had on our lives. She really appreciated it and it was cathartic for all of us, especially his wife who has become a dear friend since.
Can you work with your dh to come up with a letter to his wife that relates how much he meant to you?
I think this is a wonderful idea. I'm sorry for your loss, what an awful shock. Life certainly isn't fair.