Partners and passwords

[nowa]

Out phones have the same password so we can use various apps with whoever's phone is closer. I know H's password that he uses for most things but hardly use it unless I'm paying a bill on an account if his. Otherwise I always ask permission first. He asks me if he needs my passwords for something and j give it to him. I don't think he has any of them memorized. I'd be suspicious if he weren't willing to give me his password but I also don't go snooping and trust he does the same.

[Deleted]

We know each other's passwords for phones and email. Passwords for other accounts, like does he have my username and pw for proboards? Um, no.

[cbback]

I admit I occasionally snoop. He used to message an x hookup on facebook and I read their conversations. Nothing was sexual but I was uncomfortable with some things (very very few, but still...) he was saying because it painted me in a bad light. They eventually stopped talking after our first was born. I was snoop free for awhile. Then a few years later i found condoms in his car when I was vacuuming it. He had a bizarre excuse and i never found anything else, so i had to let it go. But yes, I snoop.

[gennyu]

Mar 18, 2015 17:05:53 GMT -5 cbback said:

I admit I occasionally snoop. He used to message an x hookup on facebook and I read their conversations. Nothing was sexual but I was uncomfortable with some things (very very few, but still...) he was saying because it painted me in a bad light. They eventually stopped talking after our first was born. I was snoop free for awhile. Then a few years later i found condoms in his car when I was vacuuming it. He had a bizarre excuse and i never found anything else, so i had to let it go. But yes, I snoop.

Hmm, this caught my attention. What was his excuse?

[megster20185]

He has my password.  I use the same password for everything.  I don't have a smartphone.  I have his code to his phone but not his email.  He only has a work email so I have no need to read it.  Any emails that I may need to read he forwards to me which doesn't happen often.

[andrewsgal]

Mar 18, 2015 17:05:53 GMT -5 cbback said:

I admit I occasionally snoop. He used to message an x hookup on facebook and I read their conversations. Nothing was sexual but I was uncomfortable with some things (very very few, but still...) he was saying because it painted me in a bad light. They eventually stopped talking after our first was born. I was snoop free for awhile. Then a few years later i found condoms in his car when I was vacuuming it. He had a bizarre excuse and i never found anything else, so i had to let it go. But yes, I snoop.

Why did you have to let it go? No way in hell would I let that go.

[zbeesma86]

DH & have a password we use for things. We both know it & use it on things we both access. Our phones are locked but we know each others passwords.

I've got nothing to hide so IDGAF if he gets on there.

I handle finances but he knows the bank password.