Post by bullygirl979 on Mar 30, 2015 7:50:11 GMT -5
Guys, I'm super anxious. Like, SUPER anxious. The head of HR is in town. I'm terrified of retaliation from the other thing I posted about. I think she is here because of that.
You have nothing to worry about- although I would be surprised if you weren't asked a few questions.
I'm anxious, too. I have a girls' night tonight that I can't gracefully bow out of. I guess it's time to spill the beans? I haven't even told my parents yet!
HR is here to investigate the claims, make a report, and start the process of determining what to do. It's scary and sucks, but if there is retaliation or you seriously feel there would be retaliation against you then say something or document it.
Do you think the claims are legit? In my previous positions, I've been tangentally involved in two investigations--one went to court but was dropped when the plaintiff didn't show up to court, the other I don't know what happened because I left the job before the investigation was over (though I did have a "secret" meeting with corporate HR).
Post by udscoobychick on Mar 30, 2015 8:09:39 GMT -5
I hope things go smoothly, Bully.
I made bacon guacamole grilled cheese sandwiches for DH and me last night...not exactly fancy anniversary food, but they were delicious. Mmmmmm. We also split the last bottle of sparkling cider from our wedding. But our real celebration will be on Saturday...we're going out for a really fancy dinner, and I'm very excited about it!
SwimDeep, is it on Netflix? I haven't watched it, but I was thinking about starting it soon.
Muddled, how far along are you now? It's your big news! You tell people when you're ready.
bullygirl979, I don't think you have anything to worry about, but if you're that anxious about possible retaliation, it might not hurt to have that documented.
I am really tired today, but I had a pretty good weekend. And this week is a short week! Woot!
Breathe, bully. It's about your boss, and they are on HIGH alert for shenanigans now, so if anything were to happen they will take it super seriously. But I highly doubt anything will happen to you.
I just was contacted by my recruiter from a staffing agency about a job that's overnight, $4/hour paycut and a contract position for 3 months. I feel desperate enough to take it because it's in my field and gets me experience but it's a big leap. The paycut wouldn't be an issue for us so I'm torn. It would get me 3 months of much needed experience so I don't know what to do.
hmm...knowing how miserable your current job has been making you, I'm tempted to tell you to go for it. An overnight job would be tough, though, even if it's only for three months.
I just was contacted by my recruiter from a staffing agency about a job that's overnight, $4/hour paycut and a contract position for 3 months. I feel desperate enough to take it because it's in my field and gets me experience but it's a big leap. The paycut wouldn't be an issue for us so I'm torn. It would get me 3 months of much needed experience so I don't know what to do.
I couldn't do nights. I've done it before and I hated it. If you can, more power to you!
Post by starrieskies on Mar 30, 2015 10:34:37 GMT -5
Muddled, can I just say (again) how over the moon excited I am for you?? Because I really, really am!!
bullygirl979 sending lots of hugs and calming thoughts!
I'm oddly in a pretty good mood this morning. I made a huge amount of progress on moving out list over the weekend, got all but one piece of ds's birthday present, had a surprisingly pleasant time with my mom on sunday, and spent a good chunk of time shredding old documents that I don't need anymore. The shredding was extremely therapeutic.
The weekend was nice, but there's a huge pile of dishes waiting for me tonight, and I am cranky as fuck. After several days of awesome behavior, my cat was awake since 4 am and knocked over all kinds of shit, including a full glass of water on my dresser that I thought she couldn't get to. I am pissed.
Post by turtle1120 on Mar 30, 2015 10:51:27 GMT -5
I had grand plans to do lots of cleaning and stuff around the house this weekend and I didn't get anything accomplished in that regard. I did see a band, go to a basketball game, and relax a lot though
Post by turtle1120 on Mar 30, 2015 10:53:20 GMT -5
Oh this is funny. I made some really good tilapia for dinner last night and DD wanted to bring leftovers to the babysitter's for lunch today. But she was insistent that she wanted the tilapia and a ham and cheese sandwich. So I texted the babysitter after I dropped DD off and said don't mind the random lunch, that's what C insisted on having. I didn't want her to think I was crazy! LOL
Post by starrieskies on Mar 30, 2015 10:55:59 GMT -5
turtle1120 our kids can sit together at the random food combination table today. When asked what he wanted for dinner tonight, ds declared that he would like chilli and broccoli. But not mixed together. Lol
I have done nothing today but read about all the scientology craziness. I missed the movie last night but I think it re-airs either tonight or tomorrow.
Thanks for your input guys, overnight sucks something awful but for the right paycheck I would be willing to do it. Unfortunately this job is not something I would ordinarily consider doing that for but I think I'm desperate enough that I might go for it.
You've posted a lot about how miserable you are in your current job. It's This opportunity is for three months, and if you think it could lead to something better in your field I think it would be worth going for. Sometimes a little bit of pain is worth it. You would need support, though. Do you think your H would be supportive of this?
Do you know anything about where you would be working? I'd feel really bad if I encouraged you to take this opportunity and then the new place is even worse than the place you're in now.
Thanks for your input guys, overnight sucks something awful but for the right paycheck I would be willing to do it. Unfortunately this job is not something I would ordinarily consider doing that for but I think I'm desperate enough that I might go for it.
if it's in the field you want to be in and openings in that field are rare, then I think you should do it.
Kind of. I mean, I feel huge, but I doubt anyone else can see it. Brad can. A stranger wouldn't notice, but even after my morning poop, it's still there.
Muddled I'm so excited for you! I agree that if you're not ready to tell, either you have a TERRIBLE headache or you're on antibiotics so really can't drink anyway.
Thanks for your input guys, overnight sucks something awful but for the right paycheck I would be willing to do it. Unfortunately this job is not something I would ordinarily consider doing that for but I think I'm desperate enough that I might go for it.
Is this position something that might lead to one that is longer-term than 3 months? Or make you more employable such that you will have no worries about finding a new job when the temporary one ends? I know I would spend that whole 3 months stressing over whether I would find another position at the end of it and kicking myself for leaving a longer-term position.
Pinkplasticdoll. not sure what you do or the experience you need but if you think it would help boost you to somewhere you want to be I would really consider it.
Congratulations muddled.
So I pending inspections and such. I am buying a house. I'm nervous/excited about it.