Post by charmediamsure on Mar 30, 2015 18:38:53 GMT -5
I just had my 3d ultrasound and it is definitely a girl! We didn't get great pics because she was facing my back, and they are on a DVD and my new MacBook doesn't have a disc drive... So I have to wait until I get to work tomorrow to get them off.
I'm so excited to have confirmation it is a girl. I've already bought a bunch of clothes...
My friend's mom died suddenly this morning and the visitation is tomorrow. I just found out that she will be laid out in the same exact room of the same exact funeral home as Avery. I truly think I'll be fine, but I'm having a ton of anxiety about it. I've successfully avoided going back there for 3 years.
Oh my goodness, how awful. I'm so sorry for your friend and her family. Big hugs in preparing to go back there.
My friend's mom died suddenly this morning and the visitation is tomorrow. I just found out that she will be laid out in the same exact room of the same exact funeral home as Avery. I truly think I'll be fine, but I'm having a ton of anxiety about it. I've successfully avoided going back there for 3 years.
How terrible for your friend.
Don't do anything you aren't totally comfortable with. If you're having anxiety, I'm sure your friend will completely understand you not going. Can you bring your H in case you have a problem?
I know . Her mom has been dealing with early onset Alzheimer's for a while now, but she seemed to be alright from a health perspective.
I definitely want to be there for her and I really think that I will be fine, I just don't want to make an ass of myself if I walk in and start bawling. I guess I have to rip the bandaid off eventually. I'm going to go with a big group right after school so that should help.
Don't do anything you aren't totally comfortable with. If you're having anxiety, I'm sure your friend will completely understand you not going. Can you bring your H in case you have a problem?
I know . Her mom has been dealing with early onset Alzheimer's for a while now, but she seemed to be alright from a health perspective.
I definitely want to be there for her and I really think that I will be fine, I just don't want to make an ass of myself if I walk in and start bawling. I guess I have to rip the bandaid off eventually. I'm going to go with a big group right after school so that should help.
Post by charmediamsure on Mar 30, 2015 18:44:44 GMT -5
careyalis not to sound totally creepy, but last night I had my first probie dream. I was going through all the old baby clothes of Jack's and separating them to give away and I had a huge pile for you. I said I didn't need them because I was having a girl so I was giving them to you because you were having a boy. And I forgot which house was yours and ended up knocking on every door on the street looking for you. And when I found you you said "oh, this will totally help because I'm having twins!"
A is asleep in the car for the second time today. His sleep is so messed up with being sick. We got the beds and entertainment center built today! I have been trying so hard to get all the boxes out. A's playroom is coming along nicely too.
I didn't realize you moved! I knew you were ready to get out of the ILs. I'm jealous that you will have a playroom.
We moved this weekend! Same town. I'm excited to post pics but not until it's looking a bit more put together.
careyalis not to sound totally creepy, but last night I had my first probie dream. I was going through all the old baby clothes of Jack's and separating them to give away and I had a huge pile for you. I said I didn't need them because I was having a girl so I was giving them to you because you were having a boy. And I forgot which house was yours and ended up knocking on every door on the street looking for you. And when I found you you said "oh, this will totally help because I'm having twins!"
Lol! I love that I made your dream- not creepy at all I go back to the doctor tomorrow so we can double check for a hiding twin!
We took the kids to the Cheesecake Factory for dinner for E's birthday ( they like to go where people will sing to them, lol) and now I feel ill. The portions are so ridiculously large. And I ate all of it. Ugh.
We took the kids to the Cheesecake Factory for dinner for E's birthday ( they like to go where people will sing to them, lol) and now I feel ill. The portions are so ridiculously large. And I ate all of it. Ugh.
We took the kids to the Cheesecake Factory for dinner for E's birthday ( they like to go where people will sing to them, lol) and now I feel ill. The portions are so ridiculously large. And I ate all of it. Ugh.
I know people move every day, but holy shit this 1 month transition packing/throwing away period is driving my OCDness into overdrive. I legit have anxiety non stop. I'm excited but stressed. I've never done this with kids before. Can't wait till April is over with ( and it's not even here!)
Owen was in bed and asleep before Violet tonight. h is already in bed. He ended up with 2 stitches in the webbing of his thumb and a dx of "just a virus". V's bedtime went much better tonight, though she's still on the pillow in front of me. I'm afraid to move her.
Post by honeybee503 on Mar 30, 2015 19:37:49 GMT -5
Lately I have been feeling kind of sad about being done having babies. I don't want another kid, and our family feels complete as it as. I just miss having a snuggly newborn. Actually, I think I miss the anticipation most of all. What is the sex going to be, picking out names, etc. My H had a V so it is definitely a done deal, but I keep looking at newborn clothes like a crazypants.
After a discussion, DH is going to try something new for bedtime with M. He had been staying with her until she fell asleep and falling asleep himself for hours. He told her 20 mins and then he leaves. We'll see how it goes.
We took the kids to the Cheesecake Factory for dinner for E's birthday ( they like to go where people will sing to them, lol) and now I feel ill. The portions are so ridiculously large. And I ate all of it. Ugh.
as hard as I tried, I'm not going to finish the Pom Pom rug im making Mila for her big girl room before we actually give it to her this Thursday. I'm super disappointed in myself.
as hard as I tried, I'm not going to finish the Pom Pom rug im making Mila for her big girl room before we actually give it to her this Thursday. I'm super disappointed in myself.
Give it to some crafty girl in the back of class and tell her she will get extra credit to finish it