I know you're not and I appreciate what you're doing. I lurve you for it.
I just realized that I've bought a lot of dresses lately. I'll wear them all but it's been a very long time since I've bought that many. It freaked me out a bit. My sister made me feel better though, she bought 6 dresses in 2 days--at least I'm not that bad.
I do that. Then I go a long time without buying any clothes except for a few discounted pieces here and there. But those first initial purchases give me a panic attack. 'Why am I spending all this money on clothes!'
Post by cuddlyevil on Apr 10, 2015 10:01:44 GMT -5
That's exactly where I am right now. I know I need the stuff but it's just like "whoa, I bought how many?". I still haven't completely gotten past the guilt of doing something selfish for me--I still feel a little "well, I could use that money on something for the kids" even though the kids are not wanting for anything.
I know you're not and I appreciate what you're doing. I lurve you for it.
I just realized that I've bought a lot of dresses lately. I'll wear them all but it's been a very long time since I've bought that many. It freaked me out a bit. My sister made me feel better though, she bought 6 dresses in 2 days--at least I'm not that bad.
I'll make you feel lots better. I have an entire closet just for dresses. It isn't a tiny closet either...
I know you're not and I appreciate what you're doing. I lurve you for it.
I just realized that I've bought a lot of dresses lately. I'll wear them all but it's been a very long time since I've bought that many. It freaked me out a bit. My sister made me feel better though, she bought 6 dresses in 2 days--at least I'm not that bad.
I'll make you feel lots better. I have an entire closet just for dresses. It isn't a tiny closet either...
Post by captainmel on Apr 10, 2015 10:47:22 GMT -5
One of the things we (OK, mostly me...) Loved about the apartment we are in right now is that it has great closets. 2 huge closets in the big bedroom and another huge closet in the smaller bedroom, 2 coat closets in the main room and a pantry closet in the kitchen. Heart closets.
I'm finding some great stuff for you cuddlyevil. Post with choices on its way!
I woke up crying and full of anxiety over paying my therapy bills. I have months to go before I hit my deductable. lolol it's prime material for a Lifetime movie of the week. Jesus.
One of the things we (OK, mostly me...) Loved about the apartment we are in right now is that it has great closets. 2 huge closets in the big bedroom and another huge closet in the smaller bedroom, 2 coat closets in the main room and a pantry closet in the kitchen. Heart closets.
I'm finding some great stuff for you cuddlyevil. Post with choices on its way!
I bought my house because it's old and has lots of closets.
Post by captainmel on Apr 10, 2015 11:18:24 GMT -5
cuddlyevil, here are shoe choices! $60- DSW $40- DSW (love the coral color but they are also available in nude) These are probably my favorite but I am a bow addict! $50- DSW $40- DSW also available in nude
Jewelry choices - I am completely obsessed with statement necklaces. Plus they draw attention to clevage without being too attention whore-ey.
Pick this one with the clear stones if you pick any of the colored shoes. Baublebar- $28
This one with nude shoes would be my top choice and combo. In the blue tones. Baublebar- $34
The other jewelry option is no necklace and sparkle bracelets. If you want bracelets I can find some of those too.
I woke up crying and full of anxiety over paying my therapy bills. I have months to go before I hit my deductable. lolol it's prime material for a Lifetime movie of the week. Jesus.
Hugs, hugs, and more hugs. Can you stay home and snuggle with Carmen? Love you billions.
captainmel, I already have nude pumps--would those work? (they're simple, Vince Camuto pumps--slightly pointed toe and not too high of a heel). I LOVE that blue necklace!
captainmel, I already have nude pumps--would those work? (they're simple, Vince Camuto pumps--slightly pointed toe and not too high of a heel). I LOVE that blue necklace!
Those sound great! If you want to order the necklace can I PM you an invite code? I get a store credit if I refer you! Baublebar is my favorite place to order stuff from!
I love nude pumps because then you get legs for days!
Post by cuddlyevil on Apr 10, 2015 11:37:39 GMT -5
Please PM me!
Yeah, the folks at the limited told me I needed nude pumps with one of the dresses I bought there last year. They were so right. (Those pumps were also the ones that got the "and those shoes! Dang!" comment on Wednesday).
Post by esdreturns on Apr 10, 2015 11:42:57 GMT -5
Gault - Can you call and set up payments? Most offices allow this. I do it all the time because I don't like to drain my HSA account.
B freaked me the fuck out last night. He came into my room at like 5am because "the faces woke him up". I was like :/. He then settled in next to me. I hear him moving around and find him sitting up looking towards the other side of my bedroom. I asked him what was wrong and he told me the faces were all there. Then he looked at the wall where my bed is against and said, "See? There's one right there. Do you see it mama?"
Gault - Can you call and set up payments? Most offices allow this. I do it all the time because I don't like to drain my HSA account.
B freaked me the fuck out last night. He came into my room at like 5am because "the faces woke him up". I was like :/. He then settled in next to me. I hear him moving around and find him sitting up looking towards the other side of my bedroom. I asked him what was wrong and he told me the faces were all there. Then he looked at the wall where my bed is against and said, "See? There's one right there. Do you see it mama?"
NO I DON'T FREAKING SEE IT!
My room is infested with dead people, isn't it?
Your kid sees the dead and you should probably just burn it all down.
Gault - Can you call and set up payments? Most offices allow this. I do it all the time because I don't like to drain my HSA account.
B freaked me the fuck out last night. He came into my room at like 5am because "the faces woke him up". I was like :/. He then settled in next to me. I hear him moving around and find him sitting up looking towards the other side of my bedroom. I asked him what was wrong and he told me the faces were all there. Then he looked at the wall where my bed is against and said, "See? There's one right there. Do you see it mama?"
NO I DON'T FREAKING SEE IT!
My room is infested with dead people, isn't it?
1. Yes, my therapist is good with that. It just gives me anxiety that, on top of a credit card bill, to have yet another large (for me) debt that I can't just pay off like a normal person. 2. Ask him to draw some pictures of the faces and then show us so we can freak out. Then sell your house.
Last day by the pool br]It has really been a relaxing appreciated vacation. I wish we had a few more days but I always do. I probably needed this one more than I normally do.
gault you have to look at the therapy payments as an investment. A very important investment. I would be all over the faces comment. I'd sleep in his room tonight hoping to see them!
Post by cuddlyevil on Apr 10, 2015 12:14:11 GMT -5
The construction downstairs is making things fall down from the ceiling and my window fall open from the top. My window is already in an unstable state, this is not helping.
I'm going to a beach wedding in June so I need to shop for a dress too. Um, when I say need what I really meant is want. I absolutely have more than one something I can wear but why would I do that when I can get something new??
It's rainy and gross here today. Might mean a shopping day.
Post by starrieskies on Apr 10, 2015 12:30:57 GMT -5
I was feeling brave this morning so I'm swimsuit shopping. I think I found one that actually makes my boobs look good and camouflages my hips and chunky legs. This means I have to buy it, huh?
I was feeling brave this morning so I'm swimsuit shopping. I think I found one that actually makes my boobs look good and camouflages my hips and chunky legs. This means I have to buy it, huh?