XH is having a baby

[GilliC]

I found out this weekend that XH's girlfriend is pregnant and due very soon. 

When someone mentioned it, and I said "What?! XH's GF is pregnant?!" the response was "Oh shit! Maybe I wasn't supposed to tell you!" Ugh. People always get weird about things like this. Even one of my good friends has known for weeks, and she just assumed that I already knew!

I don't really mind that he's having a kid. I always thought he would make a good dad, and I don't really want kids. But I feel weird that I was one of the last people to know. Admittedly it's not something that's easy to bring up in conversation when we're discussing other stuff, and he apparently hasn't told too many people. But it's a pretty strong reminder that while we get along well, we're not really close friends anymore. And that makes me sad.

[redshoejune]

That would kill me

[blanca]

I'm sorry, that would be hard to hear.

[idahome]

Awe man, I'm sorry. Hard news to hear especially when that means your friendship has changed.

[bl]

I am sorry, I know I will feel weird the day I hear that xh and his gf are pregnant or getting married