My grandpa died this morning

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My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:14:11 GMT -5

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Post by cookie510 on Apr 20, 2015 8:14:11 GMT -5

He had a stroke about 15 years ago and has been living in a nursing home for the last 10 years about a 12 hour drive away from where I live. He was unable to communicate - with the stroke he lost his ability to speak and he just made noises, you knew he understood you, you just couldn't understand him. He passed away peacefully in his sleep this morning.

I feel so much guilt because I didn't go see him as often as I should of and I'm so so sad that he never got to meet my daughter. The last time I was there was about 4 years ago. There is also this drama between my uncle and my dad that made the whole thing just awkward and I'm just sad. Blehh.

Anyway I'm just looking for hair pats....I know I don't post much here, but I just need to get it out.

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underwaterrhymes Elder Rainbow Jihadist in the Final Stages of Moral Decay Posts: 36,935 Likes: 72,839	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:15:04 GMT -5 via mobile cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by underwaterrhymes on Apr 20, 2015 8:15:04 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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Post by achi on Apr 20, 2015 8:15:55 GMT -5

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I understand the guilt, I didn't visit my grandmother nearly as often as I should have and she lived in a nursing home less than an hour from me. Don't beat yourself up too much over it.

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ladystardust Full Member Posts: 1,553 Likes: 1,063	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:16:37 GMT -5 via mobile cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ladystardust on Apr 20, 2015 8:16:37 GMT -5 I'm sorry for your loss.
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So_Fetch Senior Member Posts: 5,077 Likes: 3,768	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:16:52 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by So_Fetch on Apr 20, 2015 8:16:52 GMT -5 I am so sorry for your loss.
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wambam Moderator Making America Emo Again Posts: 37,816 Likes: 58,042	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:17:17 GMT -5 cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wambam on Apr 20, 2015 8:17:17 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss.
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nomad100 Senior Member However beautiful the strategy, you should occasionally look at the results.-W Churchill Posts: 8,073 Likes: 6,138	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:19:52 GMT -5 cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by nomad100 on Apr 20, 2015 8:19:52 GMT -5 I am so sorry for your loss.
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luckyval Elder Posts: 13,348 Likes: 16,567	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:21:55 GMT -5 cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by luckyval on Apr 20, 2015 8:21:55 GMT -5 Oh, cookie, I'm really sorry sweetie.
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laceylaplante Full Member Posts: 1,286 Likes: 947	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:22:15 GMT -5 via mobile cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by laceylaplante on Apr 20, 2015 8:22:15 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss.
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winelady Full Member Posts: 3,075 Likes: 804	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:23:01 GMT -5 cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by winelady on Apr 20, 2015 8:23:01 GMT -5 I'm so north.
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lilafowler Elder Posts: 24,718 Likes: 52,189	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:41:03 GMT -5 via Tapatalk cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lilafowler on Apr 20, 2015 8:41:03 GMT -5 I'm so very sorry.
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Saint Monica Elder Posts: 11,851 Likes: 11,208	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:41:55 GMT -5 cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Saint Monica on Apr 20, 2015 8:41:55 GMT -5 I am so sorry for your loss.
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venice2007 Elder Posts: 12,157 Likes: 12,909	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:42:06 GMT -5 via mobile cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by venice2007 on Apr 20, 2015 8:42:06 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss. Xo
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compassrose Senior Member Posts: 7,321 Likes: 6,198	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:49:43 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by compassrose on Apr 20, 2015 8:49:43 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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kittyb Full Member Posts: 1,176 Likes: 937	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:53:02 GMT -5 via mobile cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by kittyb on Apr 20, 2015 8:53:02 GMT -5 I'm sorry for your loss.
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Deleted Posts: 0	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 8:54:21 GMT -5 cookie510 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Apr 20, 2015 8:54:21 GMT -5 I'm very sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
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ginger Elder Posts: 11,425 Likes: 10,232	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 9:20:23 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ginger on Apr 20, 2015 9:20:23 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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jlt19 Elder Posts: 11,023 Likes: 10,223	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 9:26:13 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jlt19 on Apr 20, 2015 9:26:13 GMT -5 I'm sorry
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Serenity9 Full Member Posts: 4,364 Likes: 10,126	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 9:31:14 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Serenity9 on Apr 20, 2015 9:31:14 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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tripleshot Senior Member Posts: 9,205 Likes: 7,726	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 9:56:03 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by tripleshot on Apr 20, 2015 9:56:03 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for your loss.
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rosiebear Senior Member Posts: 8,292 Likes: 18,427	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 10:04:40 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by rosiebear on Apr 20, 2015 10:04:40 GMT -5 I'm really sorry. Those sound like difficult circumstances; be gentle with yourself.
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sharknado Senior Member Posts: 5,259 Likes: 5,815	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 10:06:16 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sharknado on Apr 20, 2015 10:06:16 GMT -5 TPJ
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bittybomb Senior Member Posts: 5,206 Likes: 2,955	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 10:06:25 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bittybomb on Apr 20, 2015 10:06:25 GMT -5 I am so sorry:( I am sure he knew what you meant to him, and I'm even more sure he wouldn't want you to feel guilty or beat yourself up.
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revolution Senior Member Posts: 7,855 Likes: 3,113	My grandpa died this morning Apr 20, 2015 10:11:13 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by revolution on Apr 20, 2015 10:11:13 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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