Thank yoy every one. I'm so tired and wrung out feeling and it hasn't even been 12 hours and most of that has been spent being supportive so while I've shed some tears, I usually reign it in quickly. I'm going to go to work just in the morning and then leave at lunch and we're going to go meet with a a priest at the local church. ILs weren't religious at all but she wants to have some kind of ceremony and had meet the Father there on 2 occasions when she attended events with the neighbor girls as their "special persons" day and she really liked him.
I'm so sorry IK! I know he was so special to both you and your H. Sending your family lots of love. I know you're taking care of H and the rest of the family but take care of yourself too. We're here for you! Hugs!