I bought a way too expensive Disney annual pass mostly so I could go with golfer. I do have other friends that have trips planned and want to do Disney, so it will pay for itself by midsummer, but it wasn't really an expense I had budgeted. I feel a little guilty about it, but it was an amazing day.
I'm upset my STBXSIL blocked me because I really want to send her a hearty hate FB message after everything I just learned from my brother.
Tellllll us.
Oh basically that she quit her job, again, has spent every dime he earned during deployment, and has YELLED at him, YELLED, for paying off bills with the money he earned and leaving her with $500 spending money (all bills already paid) for two weeks. $500 for one person to spend however the fuck she wanted for two weeks. YELLED at him.
Post by jojoandleo on Apr 24, 2015 14:58:54 GMT -5
bl-we email. I can't actually talk to him. He gets phone calls occasionally at ports, or something, but he uses those to call, well, used to be his wife and then my mom.
I found out today that I might earn more than you should for a Roth IRA and I immediately thought, why didn't achase123 tell me? Lol, I do have an irl adviser and they probably should have been my first thought. But nope, achase came to mind first.
That's funny. You mean why didn't I tell you about income limits and phase outs for making a Roth contribution?
If your 401(k) has a Roth component you might be able to do an after tax contribution that way.
The weather here is cold for here today and tomorrow (73) but next week it'll be in the low 90s. Holy summer already!
My coworker and i were walking last week and saw W drive by. He was very mature and blew black smoke from his diesel truck when he saw me. So weird to think he was a big part of my life and now he's just some douche in a big dodge truck blowing black smoke.
I chose to go to a mixer and drink beer last night instead of going to bible study. Oops.
That's funny. You mean why didn't I tell you about income limits and phase outs for making a Roth contribution?
If your 401(k) has a Roth component you might be able to do an after tax contribution that way.
Yes, which is totally not your job and you don't know my income so why would you tell me? But we had just been talking in the goals post about money and Roths and you were my first thought instead of the person actually responsible. After I realized that I emailed my accountant.
So funny! I actually emailed my CPA yesterday since my income will be more this year than ever so I want to make sure o don't have a surprise at tax time. I may need to increase 401k contributions since I lowered my deferral amount to pay off my debt.
I am, like, shaking mad. I want to fly out to California and bunch her in the face. NOW, she is liking my cousin's FB posts and shit, trying to be friendly. I swear to god if my bro stays with her...
pinkdutchtulips your statement makes me think that you feel as if he is too good for online dating, but you aren't? Almost like you think he's better than you for some reason and you shouldn't be thinking so negatively! I consider myself quite the catch and I the guy I currently am dating didn't have any trouble finding women to date irl, but they weren't what he was looking for. Dating is hard for everyone yo.
pinkdutchtulips your statement makes me think that you feel as if he is too good for online dating, but you aren't? Almost like you think he's better than you for some reason and you shouldn't be thinking so negatively! I consider myself quite the catch and I the guy I currently am dating didn't have any trouble finding women to date irl, but they weren't what he was looking for. Dating is hard for everyone yo.
i know i shouldn't be thinking negatively like this but its just that there have been things that happened recently like losing my job bc my firm went under and it being 3 weeks and NO new job yet that is taking its toll on me. so when a guy who's that accomplished is interested in me .. my mind starts going places it shouldn't.
lack of job and kid status notwithstanding .. i AM a catch ! just have to remind myself daily !!
pinkdutchtulips I think it's important to remember you are so much more than your job. It's not as if you are just sitting around on your lazy bum all day or fired for poor performance. And I agree some of the most accomplished people can also be the craziest. The guy I'm dating has a stable career, makes decent money but isn't a live to work type. Very different from the other guys I've been attracted to. And you know what? He's been the best person I've dated so far. It's nice to really balance each other out.
I'm having a really hard time fighting the urge to call Vegas. I just keep reminding myself :if he wanted to talk to me, he'd call: But I'm feeling things about it, and I want the D, and to hang out with someone who feeds me and tells me I'm pretty and makes me laugh. But I'm fighting the urge y'all.
Ex-h's extended family still lives in the states. (side note: Ex-h won't come back to the states because there are DV bench warrants out for his arrest).
Anyway, ex-h's aunt and uncle told me that I would never amount to anything if I didn't work for their business and that going to college was a waste of money. At first their business was doing well, but they tried to expand too fast. They also bought a McMansion and new cars.
Fast forward to today, they went out of business at all locations and I just found out they lost their McMansion to foreclosure.
I laughed. Hard. Then I went about my workday. You know, because I never would amount to anything.
jigsy don't make someone a priority who also sees you as an option. But really I had a vegas. And until I totally totally cut him out of my life (and it was so hard, I was always like I can just see him and be cool about it) I wasn't ready to move and find someone I deserve you know?
after we all just got done telling her that being a navy seal doesn't mean he's awesome... LOL!
my gut's telling me catfish too ... we shall see .... stepping way back and seeing how it all plays out. i gave up chasing guys when i left xh. if he wants to get in touch w/ me, he will.
Ex-h's extended family still lives in the states. (side note: Ex-h won't come back to the states because there are DV bench warrants out for his arrest).
Anyway, ex-h's aunt and uncle told me that I would never amount to anything if I didn't work for their business and that going to college was a waste of money. At first their business was doing well, but they tried to expand too fast. They also bought a McMansion and new cars.
Fast forward to today, they went out of business at all locations and I just found out they lost their McMansion to foreclosure.
I laughed. Hard. Then I went about my workday. You know, because I never would amount to anything.
And you didn't want to work for them? They sound lovely.
That is a beautiful example of "The best revenge is living well."
Ex-h's extended family still lives in the states. (side note: Ex-h won't come back to the states because there are DV bench warrants out for his arrest).
Anyway, ex-h's aunt and uncle told me that I would never amount to anything if I didn't work for their business and that going to college was a waste of money. At first their business was doing well, but they tried to expand too fast. They also bought a McMansion and new cars.
Fast forward to today, they went out of business at all locations and I just found out they lost their McMansion to foreclosure.
I laughed. Hard. Then I went about my workday. You know, because I never would amount to anything.
And you didn't want to work for them? They sound lovely.
That is a beautiful example of "The best revenge is living well."
Hahaha! I know, right? Oh and no benefits, health insurance, nada! I wonder if the position is still vacant!
I would never stoop to their level. I don't like to be mean and laugh at people in unfortunate circumstances, but these people were pure evil! Karma!
And you didn't want to work for them? They sound lovely.
That is a beautiful example of "The best revenge is living well."
Hahaha! I know, right? Oh and no benefits, health insurance, nada! I wonder if the position is still vacant!
I would never stoop to their level. I don't like to be mean and laugh at people in unfortunate circumstances, but these people were pure evil! Karma!
Usually you have to be happy knowing that Karma will eventually bite people like that in the ass. Occasionally, you actually get to see it happen, and it's right up there with seeing Santa on Christmas.
Hahaha! I know, right? Oh and no benefits, health insurance, nada! I wonder if the position is still vacant!
I would never stoop to their level. I don't like to be mean and laugh at people in unfortunate circumstances, but these people were pure evil! Karma!
Usually you have to be happy knowing that Karma will eventually bite people like that in the ass. Occasionally, you actually get to see it happen, and it's right up there with seeing Santa on Christmas.
and seeing someone driving like an A-hole and then seeing them pulled over further down the highway!