WTF is wrong with some guys?

[bl]

I used to have a hookup only type thing with this guy a few months ago and then he slowly faded out then ghosted which was no real loss in my book.  He just sent me a text and this was the exchange:

him: hey there
me: umm hi stranger
him: Its been a while, wanna fuck?
me: why has it been so long?
him: some bs excuse about work and being busy
me: well I am seeing someone now so no fucking will be happening
him: so am I
me: does she know you are trying to fuck someone else
him: no
me: It doesnt work like that for me, if I am seeing someone I don't fuck someone else and you shouldn't either
him: we aren't married, she doesn't have a claim on my cock, lets fuck
me: thats fucked up, and I am done with this conversation
him: does he have a big dick?
him: hows work been?

I stopped responding, I get that our interactions were solely focused around sex before but we were both single. I know there are tons of good guys out there, but I also know there are plenty of guys that have this mentality, it's scary.

[sweetchix]

Gross! I have had a similar conversation with a guy. He's dating someone "exclusively" yet is sleeping with another girl on the side (who is also dating someone exclusively) yet he still asked me to meet up with him. Ummm... Hell no!

[achase123]

That's seriously disgusting.

[pandora]

Block

[1confused1]

What a jerk.

[sherbanator]

Gross!

[bl]

He definitely got blocked. I guess to him unless you are married you can sleep around and not tell the other person, so gross.

[LoveBug]

What a pig!

[starburst604]

Ugh. Love how he tries to change tactics at the end by asking about work. Too late creep

[lookingup]

Sick.

[pinkdutchtulips]

ewww !!!!

[Queen Mamadala]

Ugh. I had that happen a while back. What an asshat.

[Wanderista]

Something about that guy is a big dick but it is not his penis.

[bl]

@stpete wanna fuck doesn't really bother me in the context of just a hook-up where there is nothing there emotionally,but I can definitely see how it would not work with other people.
drruth breed with you, would freak me out. I had a guy once tell me that me being on birth control was a turn off because he likes the thrill of possibly getting a girl pregnant, ummm NO.

[jojoandleo]

Apr 27, 2015 8:14:36 GMT -5 bl said:

drruth breed with you, would freak me out. I had a guy once tell me that me being on birth control was a turn off because he likes the thrill of possibly getting a girl pregnant, ummm NO.

[Serenity9]

Ugh, so gross!

Definitely not as gross as your stories, but I just got a little closure on a weird guy situation a few days ago. I had a guy ghost me a while ago. I still saw him around through common friends about once a month, and all he would say is positive things about me to his friends: "This is Serenity, she's awesome." So weird. So I saw him out about a week ago and he finally brought up the ghosting and asked if I was mad at him. I said that was a long time ago, I'm not carrying around a grudge, but it was definitely a really rude thing to do. And he said "Yeah, I'm kind of an asshole."

What?!? If you know that's asshole behavior, then why do you continue to do it? And not even attempt an apology?

[prettyinpearls]

Because I'm sure being married would end this behavior for him. Mmmkay...