One more thing I just thought of: I gave H a card after C was born that basically said "Congrats on being a dad, I know you're going to be a great one!" and other mushy stuff. I had this written ahead of time, and kept it in a zippered pocket of my hospital bag so I could give it to him after the birth.
What got used the most: - jersey cardigan - zip front hoodie - tanks - sports bras (I'm flat, so I didn't need a ton of support) - my own toiletries (sample packs of shampoo, conditioner, etc.) - swaddle blankets for DS (they preferred he stay in hospital clothing, so we threw on our own blanket and hat) - socks, slippers, and flip flops - yoga pants (I was cathed for 5 days so I didn't use these until the end, but man, if I didn't have a cath I would have worn yoga pants the entire time!)
I was thankful I packed my laptop, camera, and chargers.