Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP)

Velar Fricative
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Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 11:58:12 GMT -5 via mobile

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Post by Velar Fricative on May 12, 2015 11:58:12 GMT -5

So now I'm in the bathroom stall at work crying my eyes out. Doc called and while he's not getting full paperwork until tomorrow, the news is not good already. Baby has DiGeorge Syndrome.

I was so optimistic. The odds were still well on my side that things were fine - a 95% chance. I'm devastated. Doc isn't available to talk tonight after I get home and I have a work event tomorrow but he says he will stay in the office as late as it may take for me to get there with H.

I am waiting to hear back from my H to see if he can take a call now (he's a teacher). I don't know what to do.

ETA: The results were truly awful. It went way beyond what we expected after the initial news. We are heading over to begin the D&E process.

Thank you for your support. I can't explain how much it means to me.

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djc315 Senior Member Posts: 6,782 Likes: 6,240	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:00:04 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by djc315 on May 12, 2015 12:00:04 GMT -5 I am so sorry. Sending so many hugs (heart) (heart) (heart)
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chickens987 Senior Member Posts: 9,993 Likes: 11,927	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:00:08 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by chickens987 on May 12, 2015 12:00:08 GMT -5 Oh honey, I am so sorry
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Deleted Posts: 0	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:00:11 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on May 12, 2015 12:00:11 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Sending you thoughts and prayers. (hugs)
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ssmjlm Elder Posts: 32,652 Likes: 21,426	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:01:22 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by ssmjlm on May 12, 2015 12:01:22 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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dulcemariamar Senior Member Posts: 5,952 Likes: 1,945	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:01:24 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by dulcemariamar on May 12, 2015 12:01:24 GMT -5 I am so sorry. (Hugs))
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gerberdaisy Full Member Posts: 4,019 Likes: 2,485	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:01:44 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by gerberdaisy on May 12, 2015 12:01:44 GMT -5 I am so sorry. Sending thoughts and prayers.
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Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:02:08 GMT -5

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Post by rugbywife on May 12, 2015 12:02:08 GMT -5

Oh Velar...I am so sorry. I don't know anything about the condition, so I don't know what to say other than I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Go home, go to your husband's school, do't sit in the washroom alone.

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bananapancakes Senior Member Posts: 9,922 Likes: 16,936	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:02:43 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bananapancakes on May 12, 2015 12:02:43 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. Sending you many hugs.
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spk926 Elder Posts: 11,499 Likes: 11,713	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:02:58 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by spk926 on May 12, 2015 12:02:58 GMT -5 I'm sorry you're faced with this. Whatever decision you make we will support you!
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karinothing Elder Posts: 28,219 Likes: 21,772	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:02:59 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by karinothing on May 12, 2015 12:02:59 GMT -5 I am so so sorry. We are 100% here for you.
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savan Full Member Posts: 3,424 Likes: 1,661	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:03:29 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by savan on May 12, 2015 12:03:29 GMT -5 I'm so very sorry.
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meltoine Senior Member Posts: 5,847 Likes: 5,533	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:03:42 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by meltoine on May 12, 2015 12:03:42 GMT -5 Hugs, hugs, hugs. So sorry you're dealing with this.
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timorousbeastie Full Member Posts: 4,774 Likes: 5,753	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:03:51 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by timorousbeastie on May 12, 2015 12:03:51 GMT -5 I am so sorry.
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osulori Elder Posts: 11,367 Likes: 8,991	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:04:19 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by osulori on May 12, 2015 12:04:19 GMT -5 Oh honey, I am so sorry you didn't get the news you were hoping for.
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mpc Senior Member Posts: 5,689 Likes: 6,802	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:04:53 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by mpc on May 12, 2015 12:04:53 GMT -5 I am so sorry, hun. Hugs.
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halfpint Senior Member Posts: 9,131 Likes: 7,965	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:04:51 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by halfpint on May 12, 2015 12:04:51 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. I hope you're able to speak to your H soon. Hugs!
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arch01 Elder Posts: 10,481 Likes: 5,535	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:05:45 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by arch01 on May 12, 2015 12:05:45 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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dcn Elder Posts: 11,965 Likes: 9,383	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:06:20 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by dcn on May 12, 2015 12:06:20 GMT -5 Oh, I am so sorry. I hope you are able to talk to you H soon - sending lots of love.
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wavepool Full Member Posts: 3,747 Likes: 1,211	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:06:42 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wavepool on May 12, 2015 12:06:42 GMT -5 I'm sorry:( My H is a teacher, too, and I have called his office to have a secretary get him out of class to take a call--I would hope they'd do that for you.
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Brie Elder Posts: 20,595 Likes: 41,549	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:07:08 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Brie on May 12, 2015 12:07:08 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. If you ever want a sounding board or to vent, I'm obviously in a similar boat WRT processing a major diagnosis. Please reach out if you need to.
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countthestars Elder Posts: 17,752 Likes: 15,674	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:07:30 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by countthestars on May 12, 2015 12:07:30 GMT -5 Hugs.
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thebreakfastclub Elder Posts: 12,525 Likes: 16,409	Update on amnio results (NEW UPDATE IN OP) May 12, 2015 12:07:36 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by thebreakfastclub on May 12, 2015 12:07:36 GMT -5 I'm so sorry Velar. My heart breaks for you guys.
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