Post by bullygirl979 on May 14, 2015 8:13:26 GMT -5
Sooooo....I'm a little pissed. Okay, A LOT pissed. My boss came to me yesterday morning and said "start learning xyz regs. Looks like you will be getting the position".
Nope. Not only did I NOT get the promotion, I got a demotion of sorts as I was previously included in on the leadership team and now I am excluded from said team. That, and they want to take advantage of my clinical licensure at the school by having me sign off on behavior plans for these kids written by staff I don't know and for children I don't know.
Sooooo....I'm a little pissed. Okay, A LOT pissed. My boss came to me yesterday morning and said "start learning xyz regs. Looks like you will be getting the position".
Nope. Not only did I NOT get the promotion, I got a demotion of sorts as I was previously included in on the leadership team and now I am excluded from said team. That, and they want to take advantage of my clinical licensure at the school by having me sign off on behavior plans for these kids written by staff I don't know and for children I don't know.
I AM PISSED.
I'm sorry
Sadly, I completely get job disappointment/anger. Blah. We're due for good job news!
I just talked with my boss and told him that I'm feeling very frustrated; that carrots have consistently been dangled, taken away, dangled, taken away. He owned his part in it but I also said that his former boss made a lot of comments that were "carrots" and his current boss has made one too.
I am really thinking about applying for a new job.
I'm so sorry, Bully. Brad's previous boss pulled shit like this. I'll tell you what I told him. Believe actions, not words. Start applying. It's so fucking frustrating.
I'm so sorry, Bully. Brad's previous boss pulled shit like this. I'll tell you what I told him. Believe actions, not words. Start applying. It's so fucking frustrating.
To be fair, it wasn't my boss that killed it, but his boss. But, my boss shouldn't have told me that I was getting it unless it was a done deal.
They are also fucking him over and posting for a newly created position that is just a touch above his. I think they are trying to force him out.
I think we have enough overlap that I might be able to be helpful.
Also, I'm sorry about the carrot being snatched away and the fact that they want you to sign off on things you haven't helped create. To me that would feel like putting my license and professional integrity at risk. I'd definitely want to find a place that wouldn't ask that of me.
I'm so sorry, Bully. Brad's previous boss pulled shit like this. I'll tell you what I told him. Believe actions, not words. Start applying. It's so fucking frustrating.
To be fair, it wasn't my boss that killed it, but his boss. But, my boss shouldn't have told me that I was getting it unless it was a done deal.
They are also fucking him over and posting for a newly created position that is just a touch above his. I think they are trying to force him out.
It's irrelevant, Sweets. You are being promised things and those things are not being delivered.
OK, here's a job posting funny: I was reading through a posting for a position, and in the section where they say you need to be able to sit at a computer, lift up to 20lbs, etc, it says:
PHYSICAL REQUIREMENTS
1. Fingering: Picking, pinching, typing or otherwise working, primarily with fingers rather than with whole hand or arm as in handling.
I have all the maturity of a 12 year old, because I'm giggling over "fingering"
Did they not think about that before they posted?? Because I'm giggling about fingering too now.
I think we have enough overlap that I might be able to be helpful.
Also, I'm sorry about the carrot being snatched away and the fact that they want you to sign off on things you haven't helped create. To me that would feel like putting my license and professional integrity at risk. I'd definitely want to find a place that wouldn't ask that of me.
Thanks! Want to PM me your email address?
This is EXACTLY it. If I had gotten the promotion, I would have been supervising the people who created these plans. So, you don't want my clinical skills to run the department, but you think it's okay for me to blindly sign off on stuff written by people I don't know and for kids I don't know? Go fuck yourself. I pushed back and said that I wasn't comfortable from an ethical standpoint as I don't know the kids/staff and that I'm not willing to put my licensure in jeopordy. I'm willing to help out, but it needs to be thoughtful and well-planned.
I'm proud that I went to Yoga this morning. I felt like everyone in the class was struggling it was more humid than usual. I think the girl next to me went out the night before, she laid on her mat to rest a bunch, usually she's aces in the class, I also think she might have been the one emitting the smell of cheap vodka from her pours. It was killer.
Post by turtle1120 on May 14, 2015 10:24:13 GMT -5
I'm sorry Bully, and everyone who's having job frustrations. Job dust for everyone who needs it! Life is too short to stay at a job that makes you miserable. So get out there ladies and take the world by the balls! That's my pep talk for the day
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Post by starrieskies on May 14, 2015 10:57:45 GMT -5
My day started with a 6:30 a.m. phone call from my service tech letting me know that he's having car troubles and wouldn'tbe in. Now he's coming in today but not tomorrow, so I'm rescheduling everything. At least there's coffee.
Bully, I'm sorry. That has got to feel like a slap in the face. I don't blame you at all for looking at other jobs.
Update on the hr job: apparently it's all up to the vp of HR, who is out this week on PTO. So I should hear next week. I have a bad feeling and hope it's nothing.
I'm sorry bullygirl979. I would be pretty effing pissed too. And the thing about asking you to sign off on stuff you have nothing to do with is real bullshit.
Post by Emerald1486 on May 14, 2015 11:58:22 GMT -5
Day started off super stressful (I am NOT a tax accountant yet I keep getting the tax stuff!). Luckily it's a bit better since I was able to talk with J at lunch. Tonight I'm getting my tattoo started!