I used to participate quite a bit on the knot, then moved to the nest after getting married. I was on the nest for a while until things started to die out. I lurked over here for a while but never posted. Haven't been on in quite some time. I often forget about these boards anymore. I've been through a lot in the past couple of years. A divorce, going back to school, a career change, a couple job changes, moving back home, graduated from school, started the job (which is an hour commute each way) I'm at now as an apprentice, started a new relationship, just ended that relationship (lasted about a year, we've known each other for about 10 years and he's an alcoholic which I didn't know about going into the relationship). I've been in therapy for several months now. I feel I am depressed and have some serious anxiety. I am focused on myself, my career and getting back out on my own. I feel lost and alone. I don't have a ton of close girlfriends and they are busy with their own lives so when I feel I need them they aren't always there. I am coming back here looking for support and friendship.
Welcome. I'm glad you're focusing on yourself and in therapy. Transitions are hard and this is a good place for support and venting. As we grow older, friendships can change significantly. Many of us (myself included) have grown apart from friends that were close due to time, distance, family etc. What part of the country are you in?
I'm in NYC. It's a bit slow here on weekends so don't feel discouraged if there aren't lots of responses. I know weekends can be a little blah in the beginning. Try and make a little routine for yourself-it makes it easier.