This really happened in my deposition today

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Attorney:  I see you have a profile on match.com
me:  yes
Attorney:  why?
me:  because I'd like to meet someone
Attorney:  and you think that's a good way to meet someone?

me:  THAT'S HOW I MET YOUR CLIENT


wtf that's the worst dirt you could dig up on me?

[MauMau]

WTF?

Oh no! A single mother on a dating website call CPS. What jerks.

[starburst604]

OMG. I love that you got to say that's how you met him!

[1confused1]

Oh my goodness

[abcdefu]

I'm sorry you are going through this, but I am loling at the fact that, your exh most likely said "she's on match.com blah blah blah" but he never told his attorney that's how he met you! I'm glad you got to shut her up!

[Emerald1486]

Wow..... that is so bad yet funny. I'm sorry for laughing

[sweetchix]

They're just pulling at strings, huh? What was her reaction to that comment?

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May 22, 2015 6:57:32 GMT -5 sweetchix said:

They're just pulling at strings, huh? What was her reaction to that comment?

My XH said
We all know how that turned out


what a joke
just an illustration that they have no evidence/ no witnesses/ no case

my attorney is sending them a settlement offer today.  Hopefully we can settle or the judge will dismiss it next week.
otherwise we are going to trial.  Ridiculous 

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That's ridiculous that she mentioned it

[Mrs.Rad888]

When XH and I were doing mediation for family court, he kept mentioning how I'd put my career ahead of family as grounds for him to get custody. I said that it was pretty fucked up that when a man was away from his family for work it was because he was "making sacrifices" but when a woman did it she was "putting career ahead of family". I also said that it was a good thing that I had that career, since only one of us could manage to stay employed.
Now that he and STBXW#4 are in the process of divorcing, he keep Facebook messaging me, asking me stuff about the STBXW. I've ignored, because I don't really want to get involved. I'm sure he's messaging me rather than texting so there isn't a record of it, which is funny because he'd had me blocked previously.
Fucking men.

[calle28]

Oh no! The horror of.. online dating! They are really grasping at straws aren't they? Sorry you're going through all of this.

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May 22, 2015 11:12:28 GMT -5 calle28 said:

Oh no! The horror of.. online dating! They are really grasping at straws aren't they? Sorry you're going through all of this.

Yea she asked me some weird questions.  And tried to make a big deal about me getting him video games rated "Teen".  He's almost 10.  Yea, whatever lady.

Oh and I almost forgot she asked me if I was walking down the street naked once.  WTF

[calle28]

WHY? Why would she ask you that?!

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May 22, 2015 12:02:49 GMT -5 calle28 said:

WHY? Why would she ask you that?!

I have no idea

He also has two witnesses:  my mom and my brother
He said my mom would say that he should get custody, but he couldn't give any details of why (b/c she wouldn't say that)
And my brother, who would say that he should get custody because I let my son eat whatever he wants.

I'm serious this is just ridiculous

[riverpestie]

:?

[kanga1]

What in the actual f*ck??? It sucks you have to go through this, I always think now that my divorce is final I am finally done with all that legal crap, apparently that is not always the case. I hope everything else goes smooth for you.

[achase123]

What a moron! Xh was telling the mediator how wonderful he is and how everyone in the world knows he's a great person but me. Including my friends and my parents friends. Uhhh sure they do. Almost everyone from my hometown knows our divorce story. They don't think too highly of a man that was doing drugs and having affairs while his wife was pregnant. But whatevs. He's in his own dream world.

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May 22, 2015 15:33:09 GMT -5 kanga1 said:

What in the actual f*ck??? It sucks you have to go through this, I always think now that my divorce is final I am finally done with all that legal crap, apparently that is not always the case. I hope everything else goes smooth for you.

Yea we've been divorced 5 years!!