Post by starburst604 on May 22, 2015 16:16:27 GMT -5
Now that I've picked my jaw up off the floor after this latest update, I can type this.
When I last updated, the wife "A" was hedging on cooperating with police against her STBX who was caught secretly recording women while they were using their bathroom. She was scared that if he went to jail she wouldn't get any benefits or child support, he was also manipulating her and saying things like their daughters would have no friends if he was on the sex offender registry. So she stopped returning the detective's calls and was avoiding the whole thing while proceeding with a divorce and seeing a therapist. So this week she told him he could come by to visit their daughters under her supervision. He showed up 2 hours late so she had already put the kids to bed and he didn't see them. While he was there he asked to clean out an old car of theirs that's sitting in their driveway. While he was doing that and was occupied, she saw a new tablet on the front seat of the car he had driven to the house and took it. What she found I will attempt to describe in words, but is so majorly fucked up it is difficult to describe.
First, he had taken full body photos of himself (posed with a camera timer, not selfies), naked and in various positions/poses. THEN he used porn photos of random women and replaced their faces with the faces of his wife, his MIL (what the ever loving fuck), his AUNT (again WTELF), his SIL, and then superimposed these doctored photos onto the photos of himself so they were performing sex acts on him and each other. So there were pics where it looked like he was having a threesome with his aunt and MIL for instance. In all the photos he has this horrible smirk on his face. Because his email was set up on the tablet, she found receipts of all the new spyware he's purchased since the police seized it all. Oh and he's been in some kind of program to get help, which is being paid for by his aunt. The one he's banging in his sick fantasy porn photos. So this FINALLY put A over the edge (because the rest wasn't enough?) She locked herself in the house with the tablet and told him to leave or she would call the police and he did. She left a message for the detectives and is no longer cares if he goes to jail, she just wants the divorce finalized and for him to never see their kids again. I'm thinking there is no judge on this planet that wouldn't agree to that. Since his fantasies already include family members, what's to stop him from making his daughters a part of that when they're older? (Remember, he has said he doesn't record children because he likes pubic hair <vomit>)
Some people are really, really fucked up. It's scary, gross and sad all at the same time. I'm glad it sounds like no one was actually physically harmed in the family so far, thank goodness.
I'm glad she finally saw the light and is keeping herself and her kids safe.
Omg omg omg. He's completely insane. I would be scared of him if I were her. How long was she married to him? Did she think he was totally normal before the camera incident?
He is insane. He has to be. I said she needs to get protection from the police because I think he's capable of anything. I don't know if she thought he was normal, I always thought he was a bit odd but I never thought anything like THIS. They definitely did not have a good marriage though.
Post by starburst604 on May 22, 2015 16:33:31 GMT -5
Her therapist has told her he's a narcissist, that certainly seems to fit. But I don't even know what type of sexual deviant to call him. I would have said voyeur in regards to the recording stuff, but wtf with the photos? I mean he is so fucked it doesn't sound real, even to me who knows these people.
Post by starburst604 on May 22, 2015 16:39:38 GMT -5
Also, my sister is scared that she could be in those photos and maybe her friend just isn't telling her. They've taken trips together before with their kids and taken lots of photos. She's like what if there's a pic of me from Storyland, going down on his aunt?
Also, my sister is scared that she could be in those photos and maybe her friend just isn't telling her.
Yeesh. I think I would prefer to stay in the dark, honestly. Nothing at all good could possibly come from getting confirmation on that. Hopefully he just kept it in the family? And at least they're only on his tablet and not online somewhere. Hopefully. Don't mention that part to your sister, just in case. *shudder*