They can vary a lot. Hang in there. And if it's really hurting, put an ice pack in your bra. That helps a lot. Mine usually come out in the middle of the night. If it hasn't released by bedtime and you're still in pain, I would suggest a middle of the night pump. You can have both hands to work on it then.
Since I EP I don't have the dangle feed option, but that is what all the breastfeeding websites say will help.