I had spoken to her a month ago about accessing a trust that she had set up for me and she said she was going to talk to the lawyer and make sure it wouldn't cause me tax issues. But she called tonight and told me she doesn't want me to have to touch it. So she is just sending me the money. Holy shit.
We were done after this last IUI. $15k for ivf wasn't something that we could swing right now without emptying most everything (shut up mm, I know). Esp for a 40% chance.