I would ask this person and let them know how private you are about this in a non-confrontational, hurt little duck kind of way and I bet they'll spill and apologize.
Kitchen Flirt is quite a manly specimen. Tall, somewhat burly but not a beefcake, and 35. Yet nerdy. It's so weird.
Adorable Baby Attorney is a scrawny hipster with a great sense of humor, a sometimes-beard, and a great singing voice. He recently 'fessed up to being in an a capella group in college. LOL.
I think Kitchen Flirt is more my speed. Mostly because Adorable Baby Attorney is probably my age or younger lol.
Can we do Brazilian food soon?
Yes! We are long long long overdue!
ABA is older than you -- he's a whopping 29.
Recall that I am old, and 29 is a baby to me. LOL.
Actually, now that I think of it, Kitchen Flirt must be between 36 to 38 because he graduated college a year before I did.
Post by sapphireblue on May 27, 2015 16:44:08 GMT -5
That really sucks, I am sorry. Also, why would someone show coworkers photos of their ultrasound unsolicited?
I told a close coworker that I got pregnant with IVF and a donor egg. She told the biggest gossip in the whole place, someone who also dislikes me, so the gossip has been talking about my very personal business with ALL sorts of people. I feel enraged and helpless. I imagine that is sort of how you feel right now too.
I hope you find out how people discovered this.
ETA: I hope my post doesn't read like I made this all about me! If so, I apologize.
((hugs)) You are completely justified in your feelings. As Elsa said, its one of the few things you have control over. I would HATE for people at work to know, its deeply personal. ((hugs))
Ugh, I'm sorry. People are so stupid sometimes, even when they mean well. I, too, wonder if this person who approached you didn't mean ill-harm but rather wanted apologize on behalf of the workplace for not being sensitive about the topic in the first place.