I wonder if I'll feel done someday? I don't now...I mean I really like how things are getting easier as A approaches 1. But I think we want another one. Then maybe?
I would if money were no object and if I could be guaranteed that I wouldn't get after pains - why the f didn't any of you tell me they are no joke!? The thought of them being WORSE for a third is enough BC for me!
H is getting one after this baby! And now I'll have no problem with it. You gotta be sure! Have 1 more and then youll be sure. Just 1 more.
Oh man, a couple of our friends were talking about their vasectomies when we went camping, and how it's not so bad, and Patrick was like, "Nooooope" and then I said I was considering a tubal, and one of the women was like, "Paaaaaatrick". He's now tentatively talking about it, after this one is born, whereas before he was super against it. Please, please, please let him warm up to the idea further.
DH warmed up to the idea when I clearly laid out for him the cost and recovery difference between tubal and vasectomy. DH may be terrified of needles, but he's practical.
I would if money were no object and if I could be guaranteed that I wouldn't get after pains - why the f didn't any of you tell me they are no joke!? The thought of them being WORSE for a third is enough BC for me!
I am so sorry. They go away soon! But they were THE WORST!!
Post by monarobinson on Jun 29, 2015 20:23:30 GMT -5
My H is definitely getting a V. Even though this baby was never in the plans and we were done at 2, I always felt hesitant about him getting one. I get where you're coming from. But now....I'm ready to make the appointment for him.
I would if money were no object and if I could be guaranteed that I wouldn't get after pains - why the f didn't any of you tell me they are no joke!? The thought of them being WORSE for a third is enough BC for me!
I would if money were no object and if I could be guaranteed that I wouldn't get after pains - why the f didn't any of you tell me they are no joke!? The thought of them being WORSE for a third is enough BC for me!
They were sooo bad!! It felt like med free labor all over again! Such bullshit.
I would if money were no object and if I could be guaranteed that I wouldn't get after pains - why the f didn't any of you tell me they are no joke!? The thought of them being WORSE for a third is enough BC for me!
They were sooo bad!! It felt like med free labor all over again! Such bullshit.
I was not expecting that kind of intensity - I got an epi for labour pains that weren't as bad as the after pains!
What are these after pains you speak of? I'm scared now...
Your ute wants to shrink back really quickly with #2 so a few hours after you deliver you are knocked on the floor by legit contractions that can be as bad as your worst labour contractions. I thought I was going to die and the contractions went on and on and on. Then a few days later I had an hour of period cramping that had me curled up in a ball. It's awful and it gets worse with each subsequent pregnancy.
Interesting... I didn't have pains. Maybe that's why you all are skinny and I'm not! Mine never tried to shrink back?? Eta: my SPD pain during pregnancy was so bad maybe I didn't notice it felt so much better?
Mine were awful. I was so mad that duration of each pain lasted longer than any of my legit contractions, plus they were 100x worse when E was nursing.
My dad has two sets of twin siblings. My chances are high! Haha
It's only genetic on the moms side! Because guys just give the sperm that fertilizes the eggs- the woman needs to drop the multiple eggs, the gene that can cause hyperovulation can be passed down from the mom. So my girls and their girls, etc have a high chance of twins but not Elias.
Kind of worded that funny but my OB and Google explained it nicely to me
My dad has two sets of twin siblings. My chances are high! Haha
It's only genetic on the moms side! Because guys just give the sperm that fertilizes the eggs- the woman needs to drop the multiple eggs, the gene that can cause hyperovulation can be passed down from the mom. So my girls and their girls, etc have a high chance of twins but not Elias.
Interesting. So unless my mom has twins on her side, I can't have them?