Post by iammalcolmx on Jul 2, 2015 20:00:22 GMT -5
H just got on a flight to DC. I had to stay home cause the Dog had the Dog Flu and can't be boarded for another 3 weeks. I guess I may leave my couch tomorrow.
tators I am so sorry. I felt like my world was crashing down a few months after dd was born too. Hang in there. Tackle one thing at a time. You are a great mom.
tators I am so sorry. I felt like my world was crashing down a few months after dd was born too. Hang in there. Tackle one thing at a time. You are a great mom.
God I think the thing that is most annoying is I usually have my shit together, at least mentally.
Yeah. But two kids man. Pp hormones man. Life's curveballs on top of all of that.
I think when I was about as far as you are after dd people would ask me how I was doing and I would just reply with "not good, not good". And walk away.
My mom and I have to take my grandma shopping for a dress for my brother's wedding, which is on the 24th. She was bitching about how fancy the dresses are that my mom, cousin, myself, etc. chose and she wouldn't be able to find anything so she was just going to wear jeans. This will be interesting to say the least.
tators - I'm sorry that's rough on so many levels. Did your boss at least admit that your coworker was wrong? That is so annoying - when those in positions of authority are reluctant to hold those who committed legitimate grievances accountable.
Bright side - you are absolutely gorgeous and have great taste in fashion. I bought two of the necklaces I asked about I think it was last week...one arrived today and I'm in love with it to the point I may sleep in it. Hang in there mama!
I just finished packing for my girls. They are staying with my parents for the week (7.3-7.11) and they are so excited to spend the week with their Nana & Pampo . I'm now sitting down and drinking some wine and eating a mini chocolate bunt cake.
Today was a rough day for me. My boy kitty had his ears amputated today, so that was hard enough on me, and then he wound up falling down the stairs (carpeted, thank goodness, all carpet) because he has been SO restless since coming home, just stumbling all over the place, constantly moving, which is so unlike him... and slipped out of our grasp for one moment and hauled ass, trying to go downstairs. Except, still being very woozy from the anesthesia, he just tumbled down. It all happened in slow motion, I screamed bloody murder the whole time. And he hates the cone. It's just so shitty all around. I about broke down in the vet's office when they brought him out.
Oh and on top of all that shit, MIL decided today was the day to start sending DH very harassing text messages (we are estranged from her), bashing him, bashing me.
tators - big hugs. That is just a shit day all around. You can throw a shoe at me, but things will get better*. Hang in there.
*I HATED hearing that after I was losing my mind with DS1, but it was true. It did get better. Still made me want to throw a shoe at the person when they'd say it though.
tators - big hugs. That is just a shit day all around. You can throw a shoe at me, but things will get better*. Hang in there.
*I HATED hearing that after I was losing my mind with DS1, but it was true. It did get better. Still made me want to throw a shoe at the person when they'd say it though.
Lol nO. I need to hear it. It's not even the baby it's all the other shit. My stuff with work would have been bad even if I didn't have kids.
It's sounds pretty shitty. But we both know that when you are already exhausted and mentally taxed from kid/family stuff, you just don't have the mental reserves to handle work bullshit. And EVERYTHING seems worse when you're working on little sleep. I'm sorry that you are in the mucks right now. Yes, it will get better, but that doesn't mean it's not really hard right now.
Post by bohemianmango on Jul 2, 2015 23:12:36 GMT -5
I'm going to a wedding tomorrow evening. DH's best friend since kindergarten getting married. She is marrying her BFF's XH. We never knew the story of how they ended up together because she and DH haven't kept in touch as much in the last few years. I am so curious about what happened but I don't think we'll ever find out. DH would never ask.
Post by killercupcake on Jul 2, 2015 23:26:29 GMT -5
My mom and dad's neighbors are having a bad week. We all knew that tree was coming down soon because it's been dead for years, but the storms yesterday finally did it. My parents are just relieved the tree didn't come down in their direction.