holy moly, I'm getting married in a week

[tacom]

I just want to post about all of the wedding things. I will do this in one thread so as to not bombard the board. 

First, I need to AW -- we came in under budget by 15% for a total of $37,960. everything has been paid for except for the hotel, tips, and day-of beauty services (pre-determined and included in final number). 

• We had overages on: FI's suit, FI's ring, my dress/alterations, my jewelry, tips, gifts
• We came in under for: MOH dress, mother of the bride dress, my shoes, flowers, photog, DJ, food/drink (largely a result of many of FI's OOT aunts/uncles RSVPing no), hotel, limo, vendor meals (I didn't realize these would only be $30!), and paper goods. aside from invites, we went the DIY route and I have no regrets. I also bought wooden table numbers from ebay and assembled and hand painted them while watching gone girl. it wasn't bad. I think they look great.

I'm back to wearing the original lace dress. it fits well, aside from me not really being able to raise my arms d/t the sleeves.  it really is beautiful though.  I have these coming from RTR to change into so I can dance at my reception without ripping lace. 

[tacom]

we did our walk through today. The venue is just so, so pretty. I can't wait to see it at night w/ candles (I've only seen it during the day)

I also got FI's gifts today. cuff links and a titanium watch. 

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[tacom]

I packaged all the gifts today. all members of the wedding party are getting "hangover" kits with emergen-c packets  and some electrolyte packets for dehydration that may or may not be a total sham. the bridesmaids are getting light blue satin robes with a bath bomb, and the groomsmen ended up with personalized bottle breachers and pocket squares. my cousin, our officiant, got an epic ton of black licorice jelly beans (vile, but he's obsessed and there's an inside joke in there), whiskey, and a flask that looks like a camera. I had so much fun shopping for everyone!

we wrote out personal notes to all of the bridal party members today. we have to focus on our parents next then draft a thank you speech. things are really coming along!

[gogreengowhite]

So exciting! Please post pics of the venue (and you if you feel comfortable).

[Pom]

Time flies!! So exciting. I hope we get to see some photos Enjoy it all and cheers to a long and happy marriage.

[dexteroni]

How exciting! I remember the week-before phase very fondly. It was busy, but it was also so exhilarating.

That first reception dress, omg, it's amazingly beautiful. They're both pretty, but that first one is a real stunner.

[dr.girlfriend]

Cool! Can you post the original lace dress again? I remember seeing one, but I think it was an alternate you were thinking of ordering.

[irene adler]

Yay!!!! Don't be shy about posting!!!

[tacom]

Jul 3, 2015 21:04:20 GMT -5 gogreengowhite said:

So exciting! Please post pics of the venue (and you if you feel comfortable).

the pic above w/ the trees is the venue -- we're doing everything at one location so that's it. here's FI standing where we'll be getting married next week. 

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[tacom]

Jul 3, 2015 21:19:46 GMT -5 dr.girlfriend said:

Cool! Can you post the original lace dress again? I remember seeing one, but I think it was an alternate you were thinking of ordering.

sure! please ignore the mess of the garment bag and throw behind me. life has been hectic. 
it's a little snug around the hips/butt, so send some good juju so I don't bust a seam lol.

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[dexteroni]

Gorgeous dress! It looks great on you, but if it would make you more comfortable, can it be let out a tiny bit on each side? I'm sure someone would do the alteration in time for the right price.

[SJ]

I can't believe it!!

I think the dress looks great on you

[scout8]

Is your venue in Chicago? If so, do you mind sharing the name? It looks beautiful!

[Deleted]

Your dress is so pretty!

The last wedding I went to, the bride changed into a gold glittery dress for the reception. She was stunning. I'm picturing you exactly like her How fun!

I'm so excited for you. I hope you have an amazing time and I also hope you post pictures afterward!

[tacom]

Jul 3, 2015 21:55:11 GMT -5 dexteroni said:

Gorgeous dress! It looks great on you, but if it would make you more comfortable, can it be let out a tiny bit on each side? I'm sure someone would do the alteration in time for the right price.

honestly, I've had such terrible luck with alterations that I don't want anyone to touch it. I'm chugging water, eating light, and running everywhere this week. as a shorty, it might be enough to get rid of the bloat!

[tacom]

Jul 3, 2015 22:59:17 GMT -5 jenny1980 said:

Is the gold dress Bagley Mischka? I wore the short version to an event this spring and got a ton of compliments on it!

Good eye! They both are. I'm hoping the long one works. It looks so fun!

[sometimesrunner]

Did you find a dress for your mom? Didn't she want to wear a jumpsuit?

[compassrose]

Please keep sharing details! The last week is so hectic, but it's also so fun finally seeing everything come together.

You look gorgeous in that dress!

[justjen]

Congrats! I can't believe it's here already. I can't wait to see pics

[magdala]

Congratulations! It all sounds wonderful

[cuadrado]

I can't believe you are getting married in a week! Time flies. Your dress is gorgeous and I LOVE that long gold glittery dress!

[idahome]

I can't believe its only a week away! Enjoy these last few days and I hope your wedding is everything you want. Can't wait to see more pictures!

Yay!

[ginkgoleaf]

I used to work in that building, it will be gorgeous lit up at night with the trees. Love your dress!

[tacom]

sometimesrunner she has a proper gown now. She's saving the jumpsuit for the rehearsal!

Thank you everyone!

I bought this dress for the rehearsal but I could always swap it out if the short gold dress fits well
shop.nordstrom.com/s/maggy-london-floral-print-fit-flare-dress-regular-petite/3908177?cm_em=&cm_mmc=email_tran-_-062115-_-ship_confirm-_-proddescr2

[sarapocalypse]

So exciting! Your dress is beautiful and your venue looks amazing!

[shopgirl07]

That long glittery dress will look fabulous for the reception!

[pumpkin]

So exciting and everything sounds and looks great. I love the lace dress! Can't wait to hear all about it

[Deleted]

Yay! I can't wait to see pictures of the event. And you look lovely in the dress.

[explorer2001]

Congratulations! How time flies! Enjoy your day!

[hulley]

Amazing how quickly the time goes! I will be on vacation so I'll go ahead and wish you a happy wedding day now! Have an amazing time.