Girl. Put on that suit and go have a fun fourth. Throw on a cute shirt or coverup and go.
My body is nowhere near perfect and I wear a suit about 10 months out of the year in front of tons of other people who also are always dressed in bathing suits.
Confidence is key. Don't let you insecurities stop you from having fun!
I get it though. In the ransoms thread I said I saw a pic of myself in a bathing suit yesterday and.... I'm not eating chips on the boat today. Or again. For awhile. Lol.
But I'm still going out in my suit today! And I'm looking forward to it.
I get it though. In the ransoms thread I said I saw a pic of myself in a bathing suit yesterday and.... I'm not eating chips on the boat today. Or again. For awhile. Lol.
But I'm still going out in my suit today! And I'm looking forward to it.
If it's the pic you posted onFB, I actually thought you looked amazing! That suit is adorable!
Hah! That pic was good. Then my mom kept snapping as I was getting down and it wasn't cute. Lol.
My H hated that pic! He never worried about what he looks like (because big burly fisher dude) but he was pissed I posted it. I had to take it down. He said he looked like a pregnant bearded woman.
See, even men care! I should have just told him to shove it!
Throw that baby on and rock it. No matter how big I get I wear a bikini. I remember being tiny and being super self conscious about my body and thinking I was fat. Eventually I got over all that and started having confidence in myself and stopped being insecure. Since then I've worn bikinis whether I was way way overweight or at a normal weight for my body.
Post by cabbagecabbage on Jul 4, 2015 9:04:15 GMT -5
I was at the hotel pool feeling self-conscious when I realized I (size 14) had the best body, by cultural standards, of the four adult women present. I didn't feel special or anything. I was just surprised and noticed how little attention I was paying to other people when I was worried about myself. People really don't care and if they do, that reflects poorly on them.
I know I should buy a suit but the thought of putting one on and having my c-shelf on display makes me want to vomit.
Yeah my stomach and the c-shelf is my biggest insecurity. I really don't like summer because i don't feel good in summer clothes and then i get to see my skinny SIL who has a flat stomach and has had three kids.
Go out and rock your fabulous self. Losing weight can be frustrating, so very frustrating, but i also know we can put life on hold. Enjoy it. Live it. You are doing great!
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