Nope. DH is too much of a workaholic to even have time to mess around. When he isn't busy at work (or working at home), we keep him busy. LOL!
Not that your husband is a cheater cheater pumpkin eater, but some -- not all! -- men will find 5 mins in the day to fuck around. A lot of married and otherwise attached men are on online dating sites. But a good google and LexNex outs 'em.
This is true. My BF before DH was way obvious about it. I have yet to run into a stealthy guy, but I'm sure they exist.
It's interesting to me that everyone seems to be applauding this at the same time everyone is condemning Gawker for essentially the same thing.
I'm not applauding so much as just amused by the whole thing. I mean yeah it's a data breach and more folks' info will be out there so of course that is scary.
I haven't read the stories and I should but I'm lazy. Will these people put the financial info out there or just names. Because putting the financial and other personal info out there doesn't just affect the person using the site, but could hurt that person's spouse, kids etc. with identity fraud and so on.
It sounds like they are threatening to release anything and everything on customers and employees.
I haven't read the stories and I should but I'm lazy. Will these people put the financial info out there or just names. Because putting the financial and other personal info out there doesn't just affect the person using the site, but could hurt that person's spouse, kids etc. with identity fraud and so on.
Yeah, releasing peoples' financial information and addresses isn't cool at all. But if they just released names I don't have it in me to be mad. As my mom says: if you don't want someone to find out, don't do it.
I won't be checking. DH liked an article about this on Facebook and sent me a series of memes when I told him about it. Either he's throwing me off the trail or he's really not concerned about his name showing up.
Also, he has one of the most common names in the country. If they don't have deeply personal identifying information, I would never know it was him. I'm hoping they don't release that level of detail.
Post by laurenpetro on Jul 20, 2015 14:19:58 GMT -5
well, if any of you who are my FB friends see ANYONE with my last name on that list you'd better say something. the odds are about 100% that i'm at least related to them.
I won't be checking. DH liked an article about this on Facebook and sent me a series of memes when I told him about it. Either he's throwing me off the trail or he's really not concerned about his name showing up.
Also, he has one of the most common names in the country. If they don't have deeply personal identifying information, I would never know it was him. I'm hoping they don't release that level of detail.
My H has a super common name too.
We know there's a least one person with the exact same first name, last name, and middle initial as him who's also in the military. We sometimes used to get traffic citations for the other guy mailed to our house from the Fort Hood police. H would have to call them and tell them that they had the wrong [Firstname Lastname], that he wasn't at Fort Hood on those dates, and that he'd never owned a maroon SUV with Georgia tags. Lol.
I won't be checking. DH liked an article about this on Facebook and sent me a series of memes when I told him about it. Either he's throwing me off the trail or he's really not concerned about his name showing up.
Also, he has one of the most common names in the country. If they don't have deeply personal identifying information, I would never know it was him. I'm hoping they don't release that level of detail.
My H has a super common name too.
We know there's a least one person with the exact same first name, last name, and middle initial as him who's also in the military. We sometimes used to get traffic citations for the other guy mailed to our house from the Fort Hood police. H would have to call them and tell them that they had the wrong [Firstname Lastname], that he wasn't at Fort Hood on those dates, and that he'd never owned a maroon SUV with Georgia tags. Lol.
Haha, we went through something similar with our mortgage. They did the whole background checks and aliases and he had to sign a bunch of paperwork stating that he wasn't that person, he'd never been to jail, he didn't owe child support, etc.
I don't get how it helps the cause of the hackers to give up the information on AM users. If they are mad about data not being purged and then they put it all out there for the world to see (point, laugh, titter, accuse, throw rocks from glass houses) what does that accomplish?
Because the hackers have the upper hand and don't actually think they will have to pull the trigger. ETA: additionally, if the hackers' point is that this information has been wrongfully maintained after the company promised a full erase, releasing it makes clear that AM lied about the full erase and defrauded customers. The more I think about this, the more I think the threat makes complete sense.
Great article- TFS! It's interesting that those that are thinking about cheating but may never have actually cheated are going to probably revive the same judgment/condemnation as this that actually did cheat. It's always more complicated than we assume but everybody is quick to pass judgement. Wonder if here will be any high profile celebs or politicians on the lists...
But do people really use their real name on a site like that? I would think that most (okay at least some) would be smart enough not to put out that kind of info and just make up a name.
But do people really use their real name on a site like that? I would think that most (okay at least some) would be smart enough not to put out that kind of info and just make up a name.
I think a lot of people go on one those sites for fantasy and out of curiosity. Even if they do have an affair, outing them is just wrong. The fall out could be horrible for families, children, work....
Wandering Dicks Are Shaking In Their Chonies Today: Ashley Madison Got Hacked
AshleyMadison.com should probably change their logo lady to show her mouthing the words “OH FUCK,” because all 37 million of the site’s members could find themselves having to recite Tiger Woods’ apology speech to their spouse after the ways of their shifty, roaming genitals gets exposed by hackers.
Ashley Madison is a Canadian-owned website (FYI: Ashley Madison is Canadian for Sienna Miller) where married tramps can “discreetly” find side piece poon or peen to fuck around with. Avid Life Media, the company that owns Ashley Madison also owns the sites Cougar Life and prostitution whore-ah and sugar baby paradise Established Men. The blog KlebsOnSecurity reports that a hacker group who calls themselves The Impact Team (that sounds like the name of a group of constipated superheroes aka Goopy Paltrow’s nightmare) has hacked into Avid Life’s systems and are threatening to leak all sorts of private shit from Ashley Madison’s 37 million members. They will release real names, naked pictures, addresses and customers’ secret fantasies and kinks unless their demands are met.
The Impact Group wants Avid Life to delete AshleyMadison.com and EstablishedMen.com from the Internet. No, The Impact Group isn’t bankrolled by Elin Nordegren and they’re not on some moral mission to expose cheating skank whores. The group of hackers doesn’t like that Avid Life lies to their customers about a $20 add-on feature that is supposed to permanently erase their info. The feature is called “Full Delete” and for $20, a member can breathe a cheating hussy sigh of relief while thinking that their profile and private info has been completed deleted from Ashley Madison’s servers. But The Impact Group says that is a lie. The member’s real name, address and credit card info stays on Ashley Madison’s servers. Avid Life reportedly made $1.7 million from the feature in 2014 alone. So The Impact Group wants Avid Life to either kill Ashley Madison or they will ruin the company by bringing on a tsunami of future lawsuits.
The hackers have already burped up a tiny bit of user data to let Avid Life know that they aren’t lie-telling or messing around. Avid Life released a statement where they claimed that they have secured their servers and are working with the police to track down the hackers.
This is not the kind of “getting fucked” all those married bitches had in mind when they signed up for Ashley Madison. I understand why Ashley Madison exists, but I don’t really understand why a cheating trick would create a digital trail when they’re trying to bone a side piece on the down low. This is why you should only pick up your side trick at a book release party and only fuck with them while your family is out of town for the weekend. Oh wait, that didn’t end well either.
And also, this is why January Jones is probably getting tons of texts from ex-pieces that read: “When you said you deleted my name and number, you DELETE deleted it, right?“
Wandering Dicks Are Shaking In Their Chonies Today: Ashley Madison Got Hacked
AshleyMadison.com should probably change their logo lady to show her mouthing the words “OH FUCK,” because all 37 million of the site’s members could find themselves having to recite Tiger Woods’ apology speech to their spouse after the ways of their shifty, roaming genitals gets exposed by hackers.
Ashley Madison is a Canadian-owned website (FYI: Ashley Madison is Canadian for Sienna Miller) where married tramps can “discreetly” find side piece poon or peen to fuck around with. Avid Life Media, the company that owns Ashley Madison also owns the sites Cougar Life and prostitution whore-ah and sugar baby paradise Established Men. The blog KlebsOnSecurity reports that a hacker group who calls themselves The Impact Team (that sounds like the name of a group of constipated superheroes aka Goopy Paltrow’s nightmare) has hacked into Avid Life’s systems and are threatening to leak all sorts of private shit from Ashley Madison’s 37 million members. They will release real names, naked pictures, addresses and customers’ secret fantasies and kinks unless their demands are met.
The Impact Group wants Avid Life to delete AshleyMadison.com and EstablishedMen.com from the Internet. No, The Impact Group isn’t bankrolled by Elin Nordegren and they’re not on some moral mission to expose cheating skank whores. The group of hackers doesn’t like that Avid Life lies to their customers about a $20 add-on feature that is supposed to permanently erase their info. The feature is called “Full Delete” and for $20, a member can breathe a cheating hussy sigh of relief while thinking that their profile and private info has been completed deleted from Ashley Madison’s servers. But The Impact Group says that is a lie. The member’s real name, address and credit card info stays on Ashley Madison’s servers. Avid Life reportedly made $1.7 million from the feature in 2014 alone. So The Impact Group wants Avid Life to either kill Ashley Madison or they will ruin the company by bringing on a tsunami of future lawsuits.
The hackers have already burped up a tiny bit of user data to let Avid Life know that they aren’t lie-telling or messing around. Avid Life released a statement where they claimed that they have secured their servers and are working with the police to track down the hackers.
This is not the kind of “getting fucked” all those married bitches had in mind when they signed up for Ashley Madison. I understand why Ashley Madison exists, but I don’t really understand why a cheating trick would create a digital trail when they’re trying to bone a side piece on the down low. This is why you should only pick up your side trick at a book release party and only fuck with them while your family is out of town for the weekend. Oh wait, that didn’t end well either.
And also, this is why January Jones is probably getting tons of texts from ex-pieces that read: “When you said you deleted my name and number, you DELETE deleted it, right?“
I think a lot of people go on one those sites for fantasy and out of curiosity. Even if they do have an affair, outing them is just wrong. The fall out could be horrible for families, children, work....
Definitely some do, I agree. And I agree it's shady to do this of course.
It's shady but I don't see it as that different than online porn for a lot of people.
I think a lot of people go on one those sites for fantasy and out of curiosity. Even if they do have an affair, outing them is just wrong. The fall out could be horrible for families, children, work....
Of course the fallout of an affair would be horrible, but the primary blame for that lies with the cheater. Don't have an affair in the first place, and you won't have to deal with the fallout.
If you're going to cheat on your spouse, you need to prepared to deal with the consequences of being found out.
There is a huge difference between watching porn and joining a site specifically designed to cheat on your spouse.
Not if you're not going to act on it. If the fantasy of it is hot? I mean, it COULD be a concern, like maybe they wish they could act on it, but it may be purely a fantasy. I could see that.
Nope. Sorry. Still a big difference. If you are paying to join a dating site - whether it's designed as one to cheat on your spouse or not - and you are interacting with other live human beings who are also there to date or cheat, I don't give a shit if you don't plan on physically acting on it.
Watching porn involves fantasy. Joining a website to meet other men or women - whether or not you actually have sex - goes beyond that.