When H is home he either enables stalling behaviors and just generally interrupts the process, or he's playing obnoxious video games and yelling at the tv which irritates me beyond what is rational.
I much prefer the quiet routine Logan and I have alone, even if there is whining and crying to deal with.
I don't have anything juicy, but I did have an apparent UO this week - I believe that the MINIMUM a babysitter should do, as far as non-child responsibilities go, is leave the house in the condition it was when they arrived. Nine times out of ten, we're staying out way past bedtime, so they have tons of time to tidy up.
I mean, come on. I have ONE kid, and he's really easy. He'll clean up his toys and dishes himself if you ask him to. When my son is sleeping for 75% of the time I'm paying you for, pick up the damn puzzle and put it back where you found it.
Post by TrudyCampbell on Jul 30, 2015 7:53:08 GMT -5
muppetinma I asked my nanny yesterday to try and clean up after Ruby (she's a WMD) and she said "oh, okay, I'll just keep her outside the whole time instead." WUT? Okayyyy.
muppetinma I asked my nanny yesterday to try and clean up after Ruby (she's a WMD) and she said "oh, okay, I'll just keep her outside the whole time instead." WUT? Okayyyy.
I don't think Crocs are that ugly, they look cute - not with every outfit of course. I bought Lillian 2 pairs, she loves them, they are easy to put on and perfect for the beach. Plus you can just clean them in the sink.
muppetinma I asked my nanny yesterday to try and clean up after Ruby (she's a WMD) and she said "oh, okay, I'll just keep her outside the whole time instead." WUT? Okayyyy.
Whatever it takes! But when my child has been asleep for hours, I shouldn't have to step over a puzzle in the middle of the floor. I mean, she had to walk around it any time she went to the kitchen or bathroom. It was clearly IN THE WAY and she did nothing. The puzzle rack was less than two feet away.
I bitched about her here and a couple other places and was met with a pretty resounding "Yeah, that's normal." It shouldn't be normal!! I'm not asking anybody to vacuum, sweep, or dust. I'm asking that if you read a book, put it back on the shelf when you're done! I mean, I expect no less from my THREE YEAR OLD. Surely a 16 year old should be able to manage.
Post by Faevantastic on Jul 30, 2015 7:58:41 GMT -5
I think if I watched Titanic now as a 30-something year old, I'd probably hate it. But I love the nostalgia.... brings me back to my high school days and the Leo obsession.
muppetinma I asked my nanny yesterday to try and clean up after Ruby (she's a WMD) and she said "oh, okay, I'll just keep her outside the whole time instead." WUT? Okayyyy.
Whatever it takes! But when my child has been asleep for hours, I shouldn't have to step over a puzzle in the middle of the floor. I mean, she had to walk around it any time she went to the kitchen or bathroom. It was clearly IN THE WAY and she did nothing. The puzzle rack was less than two feet away.
I bitched about her here and a couple other places and was met with a pretty resounding "Yeah, that's normal." It shouldn't be normal!! I'm not asking anybody to vacuum, sweep, or dust. I'm asking that if you read a book, put it back on the shelf when you're done! I mean, I expect no less from my THREE YEAR OLD. Surely a 16 year old should be able to manage.
My husband cannot even manage to put stuff away unless told.
I don't think Crocs are that ugly, they look cute - not with every outfit of course. I bought Lillian 2 pairs, she loves them, they are easy to put on and perfect for the beach. Plus you can just clean them in the sink.
I think Crocs are ugly, but I don't hate on them for kids. I love shoes that he can wear to the playground, splash pad, grocery store, and everywhere in between. Andrew has weird sensory issues when it comes to being wet, so I like shoes that can get wet, but I can grab a paper towel and make them good as new. I just haven't decided at what age they need to disappear. Eight, maybe? We'll see.
Early FFFC - one of the first things I did when I found out I was pregnant was go out and buy a pair of crocs. I knew my feet would swell and that it'd be difficult to get shoes on towards the end. Croc clogs for the win! Now the only time they ever see daylight is at mud runs. They're great for cleaning up afterwards.
I don't think Crocs are that ugly, they look cute - not with every outfit of course. I bought Lillian 2 pairs, she loves them, they are easy to put on and perfect for the beach. Plus you can just clean them in the sink.
Lily has 2 pairs also, regular purple ones with strawberry shortcake charms (she picked them all herself) and pink sandals with little flowers. She loves them so much and can put them on herself. The charms helped her learn which shoe goes on the correct foot. They are perfect for the beach. I know the little clog ones aren't the cutest but I love how she picked them and is so proud of them!
When I was pregnant with Lily my feet were so swollen I bought light pink crocs for the last week and the hospital. I wore them a lot for those few weeks. They are still in my garage, I feel attached to them for some reason.
Thinking crocs are not that ugly is definitely a UO
They're like troll dolls. So ugly they're cute.
I used to hate them but damn if they aren't too easy not to use. I mean, I can sanitize them in the dishwasher and my kids can put them on themselves. Sold!
Crocs are so ugly but so practical for kids. My mil bought b 2 pairs. Cars and avengers. So even more tacky. They are his play shoes. I hate characters on shoes.
I don't think Crocs are that ugly, they look cute - not with every outfit of course. I bought Lillian 2 pairs, she loves them, they are easy to put on and perfect for the beach. Plus you can just clean them in the sink.
I think crocs are ugly for adults, but I LOVE them for Blake. Stepped in dog poop? Hose them off! Had a pee accident? Rinse them in the sink! The pool deck is too hot, but you are dripping wet? Doesn't matter-they are made of rubber! 90% of his clothes have some blue in them, so his little navy crocs are perfect for summer!
Thinking crocs are not that ugly is definitely a UO
They're like troll dolls. So ugly they're cute.
I used to hate them but damn if they aren't too easy not to use. I mean, I can sanitize them in the dishwasher and my kids can put them on themselves. Sold!
Post by ivegotthemunchkins on Jul 30, 2015 8:12:54 GMT -5
A has two pairs of crocs. They're awesome for summer. Easy on, easy clean.
I have two pairs of "nice" crocs. One pair is the black ballet flat and the other is brown. I'm on my feet all day teaching and they're super comfortable. If I wear any other shoes (especially my Tory Burch flats), my foot tends to hurt at the end of the day. Old lady, party of one.
I don't have anything juicy, but I did have an apparent UO this week - I believe that the MINIMUM a babysitter should do, as far as non-child responsibilities go, is leave the house in the condition it was when they arrived. Nine times out of ten, we're staying out way past bedtime, so they have tons of time to tidy up.
I mean, come on. I have ONE kid, and he's really easy. He'll clean up his toys and dishes himself if you ask him to. When my son is sleeping for 75% of the time I'm paying you for, pick up the damn puzzle and put it back where you found it.
I missed your original post, but I do not think this is a ridiculous expectation. You're not asking her to clean, just put away the stuff they played with. Totally reasonable.
Crocs are so ugly but so practical for kids. My mil bought b 2 pairs. Cars and avengers. So even more tacky. They are his play shoes. I hate characters on shoes.
I hate character stuff, but I bought her some Hello Kitty ones. She loves them. I always said I would not buy any character stuff. But her bedding is now Frozen plus some shirts, PJs. I mean, you gotta do what you gotta do sometimes to make your kid do what you want, like sleeping in their own bed.