I really need to feel less guilt about this. He is willing and capable and wouldn't give me any shit about wanting to go away (I'm a sahm so no work trips). It's not financially feasible right now, but he has said that when we have the money I need to go on a girls trip. I just make myself feel bad, which is dumb. Stahp it nanda!
I picked 1, but when the baby was 1 month old he was in the hospital for 20 days total in 2 stays. I was nursing every two hours at the time so I didn't leave the hospital. My mom would get to our house at 6am when he left for work to watch the kids, but he was on his own every night, So I guess he has done more than I thought.
H's father figure, his uncle, passed away this year, and he lived out of state. H visited him for three days before his death and then was gone for eight days when he died to handle his final affairs. H also takes probably 3 or 4 overnight trips a year.
I travel a bit for work. Went to Spain last August, and had a couple of odds and ends trips now and again over the past year. So, probably about 10 days
Every year im gone for a four day trip with my class. Then I did a 4 day trip with my dad. And I'l had another three day work trip. He also flew alone with both kids to visit his parents for 4 days but I didn't count that.