With ML. Probably not for the reasons expected, but for the apparently prevailing opinions of my husband, whom I posted about during a very dark period in our marriage.
I would hope that he would write off a group that said dismissive and cruel things about me, and I'm going to do the same for him.
A little over a year ago we came really close to giving up, and we didn't. He made drastic changes. We are in a good place now and seeing these things said about him is too much.
As for what was said about me, well, it's not like any of those threads were new. When someone compiles all of the weirdest things you've said over a decade, I think most of us would look like an asshole. Obviously given my "role" on the board, mine looks worse. I think the timing of this all was random and bizarre. But...(shrug). I've been losing interest in the board gradually, and I think this lovely thread, participated in by many I thought to be friends, will serve the purpose they hoped it would.
I love non apologies that lack awareness. It is LOL that you continue to think that you say nothing wrong. Most of your weird ass racist bigot threads were right here in the last few months.
So by calling them the "weirdest things you've said over a decade" are you trying to say you no longer hold those opinions?
This is the difference. Other people had posts linked from several years back and they admitted their views have changed. Yours (meaning Stella's) haven't.
With ML. Probably not for the reasons expected, but for the apparently prevailing opinions of my husband, whom I posted about during a very dark period in our marriage.
I would hope that he would write off a group that said dismissive and cruel things about me, and I'm going to do the same for him.
A little over a year ago we came really close to giving up, and we didn't. He made drastic changes. We are in a good place now and seeing these things said about him is too much.
As for what was said about me, well, it's not like any of those threads were new. When someone compiles all of the weirdest things you've said over a decade, I think most of us would look like an asshole. Obviously given my "role" on the board, mine looks worse. I think the timing of this all was random and bizarre. But...(shrug). I've been losing interest in the board gradually, and I think this lovely thread, participated in by many I thought to be friends, will serve the purpose they hoped it would.
I mean, really, I just keep reading this and marveling at the complete lack of self awareness.
I think just the fact that you referred to those posts as the "weirdest" rather than "worst" is telling that you don't think there's anything wrong with them, and by association, your viewpoints. The statements linked today weren't weird. They were evidence of at best ignorance.