You really don't have to blog about every little thing. Just bring it to a forum and talk about it with your 300 closest e-friends!
Although I also had the thought that maybe the commenter may have been a feminist go-getter in her day. Then I picture her reading this author's post and then sending her a note that says "YOU'RE WELCOME!" and then I giggled to myself about it.
My MIL says this pretty often and has said it for like 9 years now. From her, it's grating as fuck, but it's because I know her and her situation. My FIL has always been a super hands on parent and they have a pretty equal split of responsibilities despite her stint as a SAHM. And the truth is, I probably wouldn't stay married to someone who I didn't feel like was a good father.
If some random old bag said it to me, I'd say "yes I am," because compared to the choices many women used to have, I am lucky. I have made many choices that weren't ever really a choice for my grandma, for example. So yeah, I am lucky.
Also, I can fully say that I am lucky as can be for how my life turned out. I could sit here and preach about how I chose the right partner and somehow knew he would be a great dad, and sure, I thought those things when we got married. But wtf did I know? I was 23 when I got married and then I got pregnant on BC 6m later. On my 25th birthday, I was 9m pregnant. Life turning out how it has for me, MH and Jackson surely has to do with our personalities and our relationship, but we are incredibly lucky that it worked out because we had no way of knowing that or guaranteeing it 10 years ago. It's a crapshoot.