Ok I have been lurking around ML a few weeks now.. What is her issue? I see lots of references to a tv tray and the hall.. can i get a quick run down?
She's a really unpleasant person. I've been married to her son for 24 years, she is just the queen of passive aggressive pickings and put downs (to everyone, not just me). The TV tray thing was the time she had us over for Xmas and she sat everyone in the dining room but me; I got a tray table alone in the hall. Couldn't see or talk to anyone in the dining room. lol She's now taken to posting self-pitying/passive aggressive/mean spirited memes all over FB, so I copy some of them here for amusement purposes. lol
Don't forget your kids Sue_sue!!!! Her wonderful sons saw what was going on and got up and went and sat with her!
So, suesue, what grave injustice do you keep committing upon her? Or is it someone else these days?
The day after our wedding, she called us over to her house, and we went. She went ballistic; HOW DARE WE DOOOOOOO this to her? When we said 'what' she shouted "GET MARRIED". She was pretty mad. And she's stayed mad.
So, suesue, what grave injustice do you keep committing upon her? Or is it someone else these days?
she is pretty focused right now on how my kids have not done enough for her or whatever, as well as dh and myself. The focus changes; sometimes it's all me, sometimes it's her cousin, sometimes its BIL (who hasn't spoken to her in years). She gets it honestly; her own mother was like this, they drove him and his family away decades ago. My problem is, now that her sister and mother are dead, now that one nephew is dead and the other is a thousand miles away; now that her brother and SIL, and her son and his wife don't talk to her, dh and I are really the only ones left nearby to pick on.
Why have you and your DH tolerated her all these years? Just curious . Oh! And what happened to her blocking you on FB? Did she re friend you?
My crazy aunt, after whom I was named, used to post stuff like this before she blocked me (my sin: unknown; believed to be the fact that I continue to love my own mother, her sister). She also posted shit about tea party politics constantly.
Anyway, when people are curious why neither of my kids have family names THAT'S WHY.
So, suesue, what grave injustice do you keep committing upon her? Or is it someone else these days?
she is pretty focused right now on how my kids have not done enough for her or whatever, as well as dh and myself. The focus changes; sometimes it's all me, sometimes it's her cousin, sometimes its BIL (who hasn't spoken to her in years). She gets it honestly; her own mother was like this, they drove him and his family away decades ago. My problem is, now that her sister and mother are dead, now that one nephew is dead and the other is a thousand miles away; now that her brother and SIL, and her son and his wife don't talk to her, dh and I are really the only ones left nearby to pick on.
How sad for her that her own behavior has caused all this, yet she is too tone deaf to see it.