Somebody asked if I was pregnant today

[miso]

WTF?  Seriously.  WTF?

I used to get asked this fairly regularly, enough that it didn't faze me much.

But today I was really irritated because I've lost a considerable amount of weight (well, for me) in the past few six months.

And, when I said no, she asked when I was going to get pregnant.

Double WTF!

Irritating.

[Nonny]

And then you punched her square in the face, right?

[miso]

Aug 30, 2015 0:22:59 GMT -5 Nonny said:

And then you punched her square in the face, right?

Unfortunately, it was my husband's cousin, so I did not, as I still have to see her at future family events.

[elleblue]

Aug 30, 2015 0:21:16 GMT -5 miso said:

And, when I said no, she asked when I was going to get pregnant.

She's obviously completely insane with no social awareness whatsoever. Wtf. 

[Nonny]

Aug 30, 2015 0:23:30 GMT -5 miso said:

Aug 30, 2015 0:22:59 GMT -5 Nonny said:

And then you punched her square in the face, right?

Unfortunately, it was my husband's cousin, so I did not, as I still have to see her at future family events.

It probably would have guaranteed that she never approached you at one of those events again. 

[calle28]

WTF indeed. You do not look pregnant!

[miso]

Aug 30, 2015 0:28:53 GMT -5 calle28 said:

WTF indeed. You do not look pregnant!

Thank you!

And this is very accurate because you saw me last night.  LOL.

(heart)

[miso]

Aug 30, 2015 0:29:51 GMT -5 happywife said:

I hope she felt stupid, really stupid.

No, she obviously didn't with her follow-up question.

My husband's extended family is a group of prolific procreators.

They all have at least three kids.

[elleblue]

Aug 30, 2015 0:36:07 GMT -5 miso said:

Aug 30, 2015 0:29:51 GMT -5 happywife said:

I hope she felt stupid, really stupid.

No, she obviously didn't with her follow-up question.

My husband's extended family is a group of prolific procreators.

They all have at least three kids.

So it sounds like it has nothing to do with you looking pregnant but her expectation that you will be getting pregnant again soon. See what happens when you have one? People expect you to have more.  

Still appallingly rude. 

[miso]

Aug 30, 2015 1:06:49 GMT -5 @koko said:

Fuck that bitch AND her hyperactive uterus. Some people have no house training.

You look great and not pregnant.

And all of these folks are doctors and dentists.

Well, the men are.

And the women are stay-at-home mothers.

Very old-school.

[sequins]

Aug 30, 2015 1:14:57 GMT -5 @koko said:

Aug 30, 2015 1:08:57 GMT -5 miso said:

And all of these folks are doctors and dentists.

Well, the men are.

And the women are stay-at-home mothers.

Very old-school.

They are going to learn the hard way one day that in 2015 that nonsense will get you smacked in your mouth.

LOL! 

You don't look pregnant at all, miso! She is an idiot.

[mudslide]

Hulk smash!!!!

[captainobvious]

I hate this bull crap.

One time someone at work put their hand on my stomach and told me I needed to feed the baby more. I was not pregnant. That was awkward and not just because I work in HR

[underwaterrhymes]

She's clearly blind and has poor social skills to boot. You do not look anywhere close to being pregnant.

[Deleted]

Didn't you lose weight when PG the first time? Maybe that's why she asked? You don't look pregnant at all (BTW, you didn't look PG before either). I think these people are just breeders.

[lovelyshoes]

I hate these people. What does it matter to them? What I hate even more is when they ask the first child if they want a sibling and then tell him/her to ask mommy and daddy to get them one. Way to manipulate a child's feelings. Aholes!

[sparkythelawyer]

So, you encountered an asshole.

[pugz]

Uggh she is crazy! You look amazing

[fuckyourcouch]

Rehome.


Seriously, what a bitch

[yourmother]

I'm sorry. Like a PP suggested, I bet it had more to do with the expectation of popping out babies. Still wrong, though.

Same thing happened to me last night. My GMIL grabbed my stomach and asked the same thing. I have a three month old.

[Aquatica]

That's just rude, I'm sorry you had to go through that. Family or not, you should never ask someone that.

[Deleted]

This has happened to me so many times. 

Keep it to yourself, people!

[mariafromnj]

I never understand what people are thinking when they make comments like these!
Stupid!

[lobstertail]

She bet badly with one stupid question and then doubled down with another. It's like stupid people poker.

[Moe]

Inconceivable!

[miso]

Aug 30, 2015 15:57:54 GMT -5 Moe said:

Inconceivable!

God willing.

[pittsmcgee]

It never ceases to amaze me that people don't understand that is an unacceptable question.
Sorry you had to deal with an asshole today

[cville]

Bitch is gonna die.