Anyone want to help me think of a team name for my adult kickball team? Other teams in our league include Don't Stop Balleiving, Harry Ballsagna, and Blood, Sweat and Beers. Our city starts with an L if anyone wants to alliterate with the city name.
Congrats again to @idaholakelady. I am so, so, so happy. Life is better without evil Boss Ladies.
I'm in a pissy mood today. E and C ended up joining the gym that we go to. They want to go with us every day that we go. I know this isn't going to go well and it will just end with me being angry and my husband thinking that I'm overreacting. Gym time is our time to hang out. Now I probably won't get to hang out with him at the gym. If our husbands try to pull the "we're going to do this. You two go do that" I will be so angry. I want nothing to do with C. I refuse to be forced to hang out with her.
Post by crashgizmo on Sept 1, 2015 10:18:35 GMT -5
Ditto on the congrats to @idaholakelady. I love new job news!
I posted the other day about DH being unhappy at his job. Welp, exactly what I thought would happen is happening. He's talking to a recruiter about a job that IMO is a huge step down. DH actually recently hired someone to work for him that did the exact job he's looking at. Um, that's a bad sign to me. So I'm hoping he wises up.
I realized that this weekend is Labor Day and we have no plans!
Anyone want to help me think of a team name for my adult kickball team? Other teams in our league include Don't Stop Balleiving, Harry Ballsagna, and Blood, Sweat and Beers. Our city starts with an L if anyone wants to alliterate with the city name.
Congrats again to @idaholakelady. I am so, so, so happy. Life is better without evil Boss Ladies.
Anyone want to help me think of a team name for my adult kickball team? Other teams in our league include Don't Stop Balleiving, Harry Ballsagna, and Blood, Sweat and Beers. Our city starts with an L if anyone wants to alliterate with the city name.
Congrats again to @idaholakelady. I am so, so, so happy. Life is better without evil Boss Ladies.
Sorry steph96 . Clearly there is background I'm missing, but I hate when people encroach on quality time with H.Â
She's the one that was always asking my husband to come over and help her with stuff when her husband was OOT. She ended up cheating on her husband with his BFF of 20+ years. She used to be a stripper. She is one of those that is like "I don't have any women as friends because they don't like me! I only hang out with men!" and just acts helpless when men are around. I don't like her personality. I don't trust her or her judgment. I don't want to be around her.
Post by bostonmichelle on Sept 1, 2015 11:00:00 GMT -5
So my buyers bounced the first deposit check, I got a replacement cashier's check. Its made out incorrectly there is a typo so the bank won't deposit it.
I got a pumpkin donut and iced coffee instead of beer. Win?
Thank god tonight is track night and I can run hard and try and forget all this shit that's going on.
I'm pretty sure I'm taking Friday off so I don't actually stab or tell anyone off.
We started using a budget app. This morning I added in our CC purchases that are due in the middle of Sept. Now I'm stressed about money on the first of the month!
Sorry steph96 . Clearly there is background I'm missing, but I hate when people encroach on quality time with H.Â
She's the one that was always asking my husband to come over and help her with stuff when her husband was OOT. She ended up cheating on her husband with his BFF of 20+ years. She used to be a stripper. She is one of those that is like "I don't have any women as friends because they don't like me! I only hang out with men!" and just acts helpless when men are around. I don't like her personality. I don't trust her or her judgment. I don't want to be around her.
OMG. I remember your stories! Yeah, nope. There's not a chance in hell I would be meeting her at the gym.
Sorry steph96 . Clearly there is background I'm missing, but I hate when people encroach on quality time with H.Â
She's the one that was always asking my husband to come over and help her with stuff when her husband was OOT. She ended up cheating on her husband with his BFF of 20+ years. She used to be a stripper. She is one of those that is like "I don't have any women as friends because they don't like me! I only hang out with men!" and just acts helpless when men are around. I don't like her personality. I don't trust her or her judgment. I don't want to be around her.
steph96 I say this with all the love in the world, but why are you letting this ruin your day and make you pissy? You don't like C. OK I don't think I'd choose to be friends with her either. This isn't a C problem. This is a you and your H problem. You need to tell him directly what you want. You need to be willing to say that's cool I can do my own thing rather than feeling like you have to hang out with C if the guys do something together. You can go to the gym at another time. You can tell your H you want to have time together.
I get that it sucks to lose your sanctuary of the gym as your space but it doesn't seem like you said anything before hand. I guess you can choose to be upset that people did something you didn't want, when they had no idea what you did or did not want. But you can still choose to go, not care that C happens to be there, workout how you want without worrying about how you look, etc. Personally I'd choose the second and tell C that you prefer to workout alone or with your H if she presses. You owe her nothing more than common decency.
It seems like you are used to pleasing others to the extent of your own displeasure a lot. Maybe it will be easier if you don't worry about pleasing them and focus on pleasing yourself.
DH (finally) called his mom yesterday and reminded her we're going to Ireland this week. She asked if we were flying first class, since she didn't think there was much of a price difference. LOLOL
MM: We booked a trip to Tahoe. Between fiddling with departure dates and cashing in unused travel funds, we saved $1k from the initial fare
DH (finally) called his mom yesterday and reminded her we're going to Ireland this week. She asked if we were flying first class, since she didn't think there was much of a price difference. LOLOL
I was so jealous of the people in first class when we flew home from Ireland.
At one point I got a peek through the curtain, and the people up there were eating sundaes. SUNDAES!
She's the one that was always asking my husband to come over and help her with stuff when her husband was OOT. She ended up cheating on her husband with his BFF of 20+ years. She used to be a stripper. She is one of those that is like "I don't have any women as friends because they don't like me! I only hang out with men!" and just acts helpless when men are around. I don't like her personality. I don't trust her or her judgment. I don't want to be around her.
steph96 I say this with all the love in the world, but why are you letting this ruin your day and make you pissy? You don't like C. OK I don't think I'd choose to be friends with her either. This isn't a C problem. This is a you and your H problem. You need to tell him directly what you want. You need to be willing to say that's cool I can do my own thing rather than feeling like you have to hang out with C if the guys do something together. You can go to the gym at another time. You can tell your H you want to have time together.
I get that it sucks to lose your sanctuary of the gym as your space but it doesn't seem like you said anything before hand. I guess you can choose to be upset that people did something you didn't want, when they had no idea what you did or did not want. But you can still choose to go, not care that C happens to be there, workout how you want without worrying about how you look, etc. Personally I'd choose the second and tell C that you prefer to workout alone or with your H if she presses. You owe her nothing more than common decency.
It seems like you are used to pleasing others to the extent of your own displeasure a lot. Maybe it will be easier if you don't worry about pleasing them and focus on pleasing yourself.
I totally see what you're saying. I really shouldn't be letting this impact me as much as it is. It just bugs me that I feel like what little time we do get to spend together will now be gone bc I know C and E will need my H's help and my husband will think that C and I should work out together since we probably use similar weights. I don't think switching the time we go will make any difference bc they are saying they want to go at the same exact time as us. I told my husband that I didn't want them to go with us, but he's all "accountability buddies! Friends! Be happy!"
steph96 uggggggh that sucks. H and I use gym time as daily hangout / bonding time and I would NOT be OK with anyone infringing on that.
So disappointed! Maybe you can sit down with your H and revisit how this makes you feel? Not about how much you hate the awful C but about how sad you will be to miss this special time with just him??
steph96 uggggggh that sucks. H and I use gym time as daily hangout / bonding time and I would NOT be OK with anyone infringing on that.
So disappointed! Maybe you can sit down with your H and revisit how this makes you feel? Not about how much you hate the awful C but about how sad you will be to miss this special time with just him??
steph96 listen to this. @shoegal is wise. This isn't a you do or don't want to be friends with C thing at all. This is you want your H to listen to you and value what you are saying issue. Good luck with the convo about wanting to be heard and wanting quality time together.
Post by orangeblossom on Sept 1, 2015 17:07:55 GMT -5
Do damn annoyed with window.s 10 and this random flashing and taking over of my computer. I'm about to use my old computer and go back to 7. I just want do to my work.
I am really annoyed with one of my teachers. I swear she got so excited that all of this technology exists, that we have to do all the things. I am not kidding gene I say we've done at least six assignments for one measly chapter. The assignment I'm working on now has 45 questions, some of which have 10+ parts. It's is overkill, IMO.