I'm going to be a big sister

[sallywalker]

Again.

My dad just called and his 27 year old girlfriend is pregnant. They are getting married. I am due Feb 5 and she is due March 19.

When I was pregnant with T, his girlfriend (different one) was due 6 weeks after me with twins. She had the twins the day after T was born.

Fucking fuck. I can't believe this is really my life.

[oliveyou]

Oh man. That would be really hard!

[pantsparty]

OMG.

[W.T.Faulkner]

Wow.

[spindle92]

Wow.

May I ask how old your dad is.

I am sorry, that has got to be some very hard yet odd news to get

[VeryViolet]

I'm sorry I would definitely not be jumping for joy at the news.

[lilac05]

Wow. I can't imagine the range of emotions you must feel.

[themysteriouswife]

Oh wow. I'm sorry. I sort of understand. My dad dates women my age and younger. His current GF has a daughter my DD's age. His other GF had an early m/c about a week before I lost my son.

[shamrockshake]

Oh my

How many kids does your father have?

[cville]

Holy fuck.

[lilafowler]

Oh. I'm so sorry. ❤️

[Deleted]

Ugh. I'm so sorry. That must feel really odd.

[cherryvalance]

Oh man, I feel you and I'm sorry you're going through this. My dad and his new wife just had a baby a few months ago. I'm IF. It's a roller coaster.

[elleblue]

I thought this post was going to be about T talking about becoming a big sister. I was not prepared for what it's actually about, so I can only imagine how you felt when your father gave the news. I'm sorry Sally, that is all kinds of crazy complicated.

[isabel]

Well then.  :^)

Sorry, Sally.

[rachers]

That's crazy. Families can be so strange.

[Alex]

Jeebus. I'm sorry.

[sallywalker]

Sept 3, 2015 20:08:29 GMT -5 @booby said:

27? does that make her younger or older than you.

how old is your dad?

so many questions. i've always thought it's neat when aunts/uncles are younger than their niece/nephew. but that's b/c i'm not in the situation. i can see why you're meh about all of this.

I'm 28, so she is a year younger than me. She went to a neighboring high school and apparently remembers me, but I don't remember her.

My dad is 52. Her dad is 49. Lol

[rosiebear]

Aw, Sally. That's rough and I'm sure it's very difficult to deal with. I'm sorry.

Cherry, I'm really sorry to read about your situation, too.

[sallywalker]

I'm just in shock at this point. This will be his sixth child.

[achi]

ugh.

[Muddled]

Huh.

I would not handle this well.

[fairygodmother]

That is just so ... Odd. Sounds like something my own dad would be done, were he still alive.

Bippity Boppity Boo from my phone

[meganew]

I feel kind of weird about my ex step dad being married to someone my age now, so I imagine I'd feel all kinds of things about this : / Sorry Sally.

[Bad Dingo]

Wow, your dad is like the champion thunder stealer!

[rachers]

I'm holding my breath for my Mom's six marriage so I feel you, somewhat.

[curtains]

Uhg! I am sorry.

[pegasuskat]

Your dad is pretty busy, my dad was a horn dog too, but I was lucky enough that his girlfriends kid was only a few years younger than me. He is going to have to keep working forever to pay for these kids!

[walterismydog]

Holy hell. That's a lot to take in.

[sallywalker]

Sept 3, 2015 20:31:13 GMT -5 loonylunalovegood said:

Ugh, Sally, this sucks. I'm sorry.

I've told you before and I'll tell you again, your family needs its own show.

Right! Between this and the yelling match my parents had with my brother and SIL the other night, I feel like I live in crazy land.