Nursing is seriously being cruel to my drive right now. And lack of sleep.
No joke. I know H wants it. I feel kind of bad, but I just have zero interest. It's hard for me to even get aroused right now, despite his best efforts. It sucks.
So, the moral of the story is no matter how low or high your sex drive, there's always a problem. Sex is dumb.
I am not feeling emotionally connected to my H which makes me totally indifferent about sex. I don't know how to remedy this and honestly, I'm too tired to give a shit.
I had phenomenal sex 3x yesterday and good sex 1x this morning.
Bf keeps up with my needs. Too bad he said something today that confirms we need to break up.
What happened?
He is buying a new house and selling his old. He mentioned making the offer in passing while we were at breakfast and is super excited about the property. We live almost 45 minutes apart now. New house makes us an hour apart. I told him before that in the future we will need to live closer to my end of town for DD's education and he agreed. But now he has an offer on a house he loves and is listing his house Monday. (Sigh) He has done other things lately that have annoyed me, but this is a final nail in the coffin.
As one of the olds I can attest to the 40s being very good in the sex department, especially with no BC concerns.
Same here! Ever since my tubal, I've felt so free! I was worried that entering menopause that my sex drive would plummet, but the opposite has happened. Unfortunately, DH seems to have decided that sex only happens in bed at his bedtime, and we never go to bed at the same time, sooooo........ Even when I have made it a point to go to bed at the same time as him, he just rolls over and goes to sleep. He's put on some weight (haven't we all), and is self-conscious about it, and that also takes a toll. We don't have kids at home, so we should be able to have sex whenever we want. Well, I guess we're having sex whenever HE wants, which apparently is every other week at approximately 2:30 in the morning. I guess that's when he wakes up to pee, sees that he has a hard-on, and figures why let it go to waste?
I've had sex maybe 3 times in 6 months. I should probably fix that.
before my, uh renaissance we were like one or twice a YEAR. Omg
How did he feel about that? How long was that going for? I mean, if he was happy with twice a year, it's normal that he doesn't suddenly want it weekly, ya know?
Maybe he needs to drink more? Or you should walk around in a thong after putting the kids to bed. You are hot, I'd do you if I leaned that way. Or time for a kid free vacation, aka sex marathon.
H is obsessed. We normally do it once a week because we are both too exhausted for more, but when I am ovulating and horny it is more like 2-3 times a week. We are 37 and 39.
Dude me too. It's not even the sex, that i can find but I want more than that--that is what is screwing me over. Stupid wanting a relationship and shit.
before my, uh renaissance we were like one or twice a YEAR. Omg
How did he feel about that? How long was that going for? I mean, if he was happy with twice a year, it's normal that he doesn't suddenly want it weekly, ya know?
Maybe he needs to drink more? Or you should walk around in a thong after putting the kids to bed. You are hot, I'd do you if I leaned that way. Or time for a kid free vacation, aka sex marathon.
H is obsessed. We normally do it once a week because we are both too exhausted for more, but when I am ovulating and horny it is more like 2-3 times a week. We are 37 and 39.
well, he wasn't okay with it but wasn't making an issue of it because I had my own shit going on I guess.
How did he feel about that? How long was that going for? I mean, if he was happy with twice a year, it's normal that he doesn't suddenly want it weekly, ya know?
Maybe he needs to drink more? Or you should walk around in a thong after putting the kids to bed. You are hot, I'd do you if I leaned that way. Or time for a kid free vacation, aka sex marathon.
H is obsessed. We normally do it once a week because we are both too exhausted for more, but when I am ovulating and horny it is more like 2-3 times a week. We are 37 and 39.
well, he wasn't okay with it but wasn't making an issue of it because I had my own shit going on I guess.
So after I realized that I wanted sex last night I went and shoved my boobs in H's face and groped him a little. He decided he was on board. We just needed to get the kids to sleep. So I laid down with DD while he cleaned himself up for the sex.
I really should not have come into this thread. It is embarrassing how long we have gone without sex. (Almost 2 years) but my DH has been physically incapable of it pre and now post surgery. I'm hoping he will get cleared at his next checkup because we have A LOT of catching up to do.