Sounds like a good plan HoneySpider. Hopefully you will have a better idea on your new job, enjoy the holidays, and even better get pregnant before having to start IVF!
I'll be praying all you lovely WC ladies (HoneySpider, grover, mac08) get BFPs for Christmas (early gifts are obviously a bonus!)!
I am around, but not posting as much. I don't have a lot of exciting things going on, and I am trying to be more zen and go with the flow, so I'm also trying not to complain about stuff, haha. grover I am also struggling with TTC stuff. I feel like one of the only ones left and it's depressing if I let myself think about it too much. We are kind of on a break from treatments while I'm focusing on losing weight, but still definitely trying on our own. I can't even really participate on TTTC anymore because that also depresses me because I feel like everyone there is being proactive and actually doing something, and I'm in this holding pattern. I know losing weight is doing something, and it might help, but then again, it might not, and then I'm wasting more time. Sigh, idk, this whole thing sucks, but I am really trying to keep my mind off of it as much as possible.
I liked your post soley because I understand exactly what you are saying. It fucking blows that we are in this boat. We haven't scheduled an RE yet, I think we'll do that appt in January. Not sure. We're still trying on our own though. But I am also exercising now and logging food as often as I remember to.
I also feel like I'm negative all day long every day and its a sucky feeling realizing I'm becoming so pessimistic.
Hugs HoneySpider, mac08, and grover. I haven't been trying for even close to as long as you all, but TTC is depressing me right now too. I keep lurking on Got Pregnant and imagining where I should be in my pregnancy. I also feel like I am staring my due date in the face.
Hugs HoneySpider, mac08, and grover. I haven't been trying for even close to as long as you all, but TTC is depressing me right now too. I keep lurking on Got Pregnant and imagining where I should be in my pregnancy. I also feel like I am staring my due date in the face.
Hugs to you too. I know with our first, I felt so much better getting past the EDD. Until then, it was just looming in front of us and I kept thinking about it.
Hugs to all you ladies. You are always in my daily prayers ❤️
I am around. My computer is still out of commission so it's harder to post longer things on my phone... I sort of have a boring'ish' life at the moment. Work, sleep, eat, clean, work out repeat haha. sometimes I run out of post ideas...
Hugs to all you ladies. You are always in my daily prayers ❤️
I am around. My computer is still out of commission so it's harder to post longer things on my phone... I sort of have a boring'ish' life at the moment. Work, sleep, eat, clean, work out repeat haha. sometimes I run out of post ideas...
Maybe I missed it, but what exactly is wrong with your computer, do you know?
HoneySpider I haven't got a clue... I tried downloading the latest operating system and then after that it just won't work. I think our internet at our apartment (its included in our rent) is just so shitty that it didn't download correctly and needs to be redone. But I don't have anywhere to go with great internet for all the hours to re-download.. I suppose when we travel to WI in December I'll try it at my parents house. For now H and I will have to share... Super annoying haha
Hugs HoneySpider, mac08, and grover. I haven't been trying for even close to as long as you all, but TTC is depressing me right now too. I keep lurking on Got Pregnant and imagining where I should be in my pregnancy. I also feel like I am staring my due date in the face.
Hugs to you too. I know with our first, I felt so much better getting past the EDD. Until then, it was just looming in front of us and I kept thinking about it.
Ditto. ((hugs)) suzv. I remember thinking that I HAD to be pregnant by my EDD. We actually conceived our 2nd (another loss) on EDD which made things easier for a bit. Passing EDD was a huge milestone in healing though. Praying you get your miracle BFP soon!
Thanks for all the support everyone!! I really do appreciate it. grover, HoneySpider, and suzv I am really rooting for you guys too.
luv2rn4fun I lost about 10 lbs earlier this summer, then kind of stopped trying until mid-September. But I started taking really intense kickboxing classes and tracking calories about 3 weeks ago, and that's going well, I've lost a few lbs since starting, and I feel like it's going to continue. Honestly, I really need to lose like 100 lbs total, which is embarrassing and overwhelming, but I don't think I need to necessarily lose all of it before going back to the RE for another IUI. I am waiting until after Christmas to see how I feel, and then either moving forward with an IUI in January, or possibly waiting until April or May. We will definitely keep trying on our own in the meantime though!
travelbug Oh, that sucks! Do they have internet at the library or Starbucks or something like that where you could sit for a while?
Yes, both of those are great suggestions. I tried this little cafe/coffee shop right across from our apartment with free wifi, but it kept saying it would take 12+hours to download. That seemed insane.. Maybe the library would have better internet so it wouldn't tell me it would take just as long. Maybe I'll walk over there on Monday when I am off work to at least check it out
travelbug Oh, that sucks! Do they have internet at the library or Starbucks or something like that where you could sit for a while?
Yes, both of those are great suggestions. I tried this little cafe/coffee shop right across from our apartment with free wifi, but it kept saying it would take 12+hours to download. That seemed insane.. Maybe the library would have better internet so it wouldn't tell me it would take just as long. Maybe I'll walk over there on Monday when I am off work to at least check it out
I've been around but not posting as much I guess? Everything that's going on is so wrapped up with G that I try not to post about it on here. I think that's what is slowing me down. I don't have anything interesting going on.
Post by wanderingenough on Oct 7, 2015 18:51:24 GMT -5
mac08 - Don't be embarrassed or overwhelmed! Just set small goals and go from there. I'm sure you know that though One of my bff's has 100+ to lose and I've been helping her tackle her game plan. She looks at it 5-10lbs at a time.
Has MrsAggie been around at all? I think last time she checked in she had a lot going on so I imagine she is busy.
I'm alive! This is the first I've logged on in awhile. Life has been keeping me busy. Work is starting to settle down, the marriage is on the up and up, and my little man is doing great.
We just paid for 1000 sq ft of flooring that we're waiting to come in so it can be installed. I ended up going with the wood-look tile. I'm so excited and also want to puke after writing the check lol.
Has MrsAggie been around at all? I think last time she checked in she had a lot going on so I imagine she is busy.
I'm alive! This is the first I've logged on in awhile. Life has been keeping me busy. Work is starting to settle down, the marriage is on the up and up, and my little man is doing great.
We just paid for 1000 sq ft of flooring that we're waiting to come in so it can be installed. I ended up going with the wood-look tile. I'm so excited and also want to puke after writing the check lol.
I'm alive! This is the first I've logged on in awhile. Life has been keeping me busy. Work is starting to settle down, the marriage is on the up and up, and my little man is doing great.
We just paid for 1000 sq ft of flooring that we're waiting to come in so it can be installed. I ended up going with the wood-look tile. I'm so excited and also want to puke after writing the check lol.