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Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 14:19:19 GMT -5 via Tapatalk

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Post by awick14 on Oct 8, 2015 14:19:19 GMT -5

So I technically didn't get bad news from the u/s this morning. I was told that it's just too early and they need to do a repeat, there was no fetal pole or heartbeat. (Today's u/s was in an office that is not attached to the OBs office, so they can't see last weeks scan.)

But my OB did the last u/s last week and he showed me the fetal pole and what he thought may be the heart beat. (He just couldn't get a good angle.)

So I'm not optimistic at all, I'm at home now with DH waiting to hear back from the high risk OB.

DH is trying to be optimistic and cheer me up but it's not working.

Edit: my doctor just called and said that in measuring 6w6d, so 2 days ahead of last Tuesday. She wasn't concerned, she said this can happen and she's seen it with good outcomes before. She booked me another u/s for next Thursday, so another week waiting, as well as 3 more betas. (Starting tomorrow)

Update: my HCG levels on Friday were 31,861, which can be completely normal for how far along I'm showing by u/s as well as how far along I should be. (6w6d-9w) obviously this doesn't show much until our next beta.

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Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 14:28:47 GMT -5 via mobile

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Post by luv2rn4fun on Oct 8, 2015 14:28:47 GMT -5

So many ((hugs)) awick14. I'm sorry you didn't have a good appointment today. Is there any chance the u/s machine today wasn't as high tech (hospital here has a much better system than my OB's office so that's where they sent me to confirm my losses)? I really hope your LO is thriving and you aren't going through this again. Praying for you...we're here for you friend.

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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 14:29:38 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Oct 8, 2015 14:29:38 GMT -5 I have no idea which machine would be better. They wouldn't let me see the screen either so I can't compare it to last weeks either.
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MrsMB Senior Member Posts: 9,004 Likes: 11,812	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 14:37:49 GMT -5 awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by MrsMB on Oct 8, 2015 14:37:49 GMT -5 Hey lady....praying it's still way early and their machine wasn't as good....praying you get some better news. Please keep us updated....((hugs))
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I'm so sorry you're dealing with this. The unknown is the WORST! There is still a chance but I can totally understand why you're not feeling confident. Hoping more than anything that this machine was less clear and that he/she is growing! So many *hugs*.

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HoneySpider Moderator Water Cooler Mod Posts: 16,709 Likes: 21,158	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 14:42:20 GMT -5 awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by HoneySpider on Oct 8, 2015 14:42:20 GMT -5 I'm sorry you didn't get the news you were hoping for And I'm sorry you're in limbo, that parts sucks SO MUCH. Will continue to send good thoughts your way, friend. Many hugs!
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bk1 Senior Member Posts: 7,213 Likes: 10,771	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 15:00:30 GMT -5 awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bk1 on Oct 8, 2015 15:00:30 GMT -5 So many hugs! Sending T&Ps your way. I'm so sorry you are stuck not knowing. That is so hard.
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Deleted Posts: 0	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 15:07:18 GMT -5 via mobile awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2015 15:07:18 GMT -5 I'm sorry you are still in limbo. I'll be thinking of you!
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melsamoony Full Member Posts: 4,131 Likes: 3,589	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 15:10:16 GMT -5 via mobile awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by melsamoony on Oct 8, 2015 15:10:16 GMT -5 I am so so so so sorry you didn't get the reassurance you so desperately need right now. I hope and pray good news comes soon.
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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 15:18:38 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Oct 8, 2015 15:18:38 GMT -5 Thanx ladies
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tacocat Full Member Posts: 3,553 Likes: 2,732	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 15:33:48 GMT -5 via mobile awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by tacocat on Oct 8, 2015 15:33:48 GMT -5 I'm so sorry you're still in limbo. Hoping you get a call with good news later.
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wanderingenough Senior Member Posts: 5,318 Likes: 6,964	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 15:51:12 GMT -5 via Tapatalk awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by wanderingenough on Oct 8, 2015 15:51:12 GMT -5 Ugh, I'm so sorry you are still stuck in this worrisome place. I will be praying all is well. Hang in there, friend.
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pooh8402 Elder Posts: 22,996 Likes: 21,415	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 16:15:45 GMT -5 via mobile awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by pooh8402 on Oct 8, 2015 16:15:45 GMT -5 Ugh I'm so sorry it wasn't better news. Praying that it was a bad machine and that your baby doing well!
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Deleted Posts: 0	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 16:39:09 GMT -5 awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Oct 8, 2015 16:39:09 GMT -5 I'm so sorry you're in limbo. I'm praying that all is well and you will get good news soon.
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travelbug Full Member Posts: 3,414 Likes: 3,930	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 16:52:24 GMT -5 via mobile awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by travelbug on Oct 8, 2015 16:52:24 GMT -5 Limbo is the worst!!! I am sending all good thoughts your way. ALL the hugs ((((awick14))))
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christy082 Senior Member Posts: 5,216 Likes: 4,826	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 17:54:41 GMT -5 via Tapatalk awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by christy082 on Oct 8, 2015 17:54:41 GMT -5 I'm so sorry you are in limbo. Lots of positive thoughts for you.
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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 18:49:19 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Oct 8, 2015 18:49:19 GMT -5 Small update in the OP.
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bk1 Senior Member Posts: 7,213 Likes: 10,771	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 18:53:57 GMT -5 awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bk1 on Oct 8, 2015 18:53:57 GMT -5 That's a good update! Keep having faith, things are okay right now. Huge hugs. Sending all my thoughts and prayers that this will be your take home baby!
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estrellita Elder Posts: 14,196 Likes: 13,233	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 18:56:25 GMT -5 via Tapatalk awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by estrellita on Oct 8, 2015 18:56:25 GMT -5 Glad to hear there's been growth! I wish this wasn't so stressful for you good thoughts for continued growth and an obvious heartbeat at the next one!
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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 18:57:02 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Oct 8, 2015 18:57:02 GMT -5 I know it's a positive update but it's hard to be positive after everything we've been through.
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travelbug Full Member Posts: 3,414 Likes: 3,930	Update (potential loss mentioned.) Oct 8, 2015 19:25:31 GMT -5 via mobile awick14 likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by travelbug on Oct 8, 2015 19:25:31 GMT -5 That's a good update, I'll keep praying ❤️❤️
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