I'm in Florida wth both kids. I've forgotten how difficult it is to take a 16-month old to a restaurant. Like, almost impossible. She just hates being restrained. We bring toys and snacks and stuff to distract her, but it's awful.
The 3.5 year old just sits there quietly and he's so good.
The answer isn't to stop going out, because Florida has way too many restaurants to eat in.
So with all of the Halloween excitement DS1 has turned into a monster. On Saturday he said I'm "just a stupid girl". And he's started spitting. I'm pretty much done with this solo parenting bs.