THis is gonna sound super judgey. And take it with a grain of salt, cause I'm not married. And I agree fully with what gbck said and I agree or believe that things change once you get married. But I have a very low or small tolerance for a lot of bullshit. I'm not perfect by any means, but I will put up with very little. No abuse (mental, psychological, emotional,physical), no infidelity, no addiction, no financial dishonesty or dishonesty of any kind. Feel free to come back and ask me about this list once Im married for 5+ years,lol