Congrats! That is a crazy big accomplishment! You must be so proud of yourself! You SHOULD be so proud of yourself. Treat yo self to fine leather goods and massages today!
Post by konstantine on Nov 5, 2016 22:00:17 GMT -5
Girl, you've got this! You are so strong. It has been 6 months for me. I purged through both of my pregnancies, and NEVER thought I would be able to stop. I've still gained a lot of weight after switching to Lexapro last year, and I still have the urge to purge at times, but it feels good to actually be able to enjoy a meal without physically feeling horrible with a full stomach, or panicking about where/how I could sneak away to purge. You are an inspiration, and I thank you for opening up about this typically taboo topic.
Big hugs honey. Just look at your own original post and see how hard you've worked and how awesome you are. You have overcome so much, you most certainly can overcome some inconsiderate comment.
You know you have not gained weight so WTF is he talking about? l also don't know who he is but please tell him that commenting on any person's weight is unacceptable. I want to rage for you.
I'm sorry but fuck him. Anyone who is with someone with an ED and would even think of making such a comment is only doing it to be a dick. You're beautiful just the way you are. He is trying to hurt you. I don't know why but it's intentional. Please don't believe him.
It was still a shitty thing to say, and not something you say flippantly to your loved one. I would be upset if my husband said that and I do not have an ed.
It's ok, and reasonable to be hurt by the comment, but don't doubt yourself or all the hard work you have put in to be healthy
It was still a shitty thing to say, and not something you say flippantly to your loved one. I would be upset if my husband said that and I do not have an ed.
It's ok, and reasonable to be hurt by the comment, but don't doubt yourself or all the hard work you have put in to be healthy
Agreed! This is not something you say to someone you love, regardless. My H actually has put on weight recently (unlike YOU!) & I waited for him to comment before mentioning trying to eat less/ healthier meals. I didn't say a word until he approached me because it's a very personal thing. (Unlike his mom, but that's another story for another day, grrrr...)
I am SO proud of you as, YOU should be. I know what a struggle it is, because it is so much more than about the food. Its about control, what little we have
Keep up the good work and do not dare let anyway tell you otherwise or make you feel bad about yourself. You have worked way to hard to get to this place!
We are all beautiful. Our bodies are amazing. They will change , but we are still us xoxo
it does NOT matter whether of not your SO knows about your ED. That is not ok and your body is not who you are. I am not certain about your relationship, but I was in an abusive relationship where he would tell me things like this just to put me down, not saying that is what your SO is doing, but also just remember that he may not "want" you to feel good about yourself