The new attack on me has been launched by SIL

[karmasabiotch]

I hate that these people can make me cry.  She posting awful stuff about me on my H's FB page and since FB has control over it I can't even delete it. 

There are so many people that I know and were friends with and people I don't even know that are saying things about me too.


I just want peace. 

SIL initial post: 

Well XXX (DH name)  I don't think you would of imagined how things have turned out. Your wife has completely forbidden your son Jacob to have anything to do with your family. It breaks my heart along with his cousins and grandparents to lose him also. I think of you everyday and how much fun we used to have hanging out apple picking, swimming, sledding, trick or treating, going to the park, or just chilling at my house. Not only do I not get to do these things with you, I also have lost my nephew and my sons have lost a cousin. Your wife has turned out to be beyond disgusting. I love you bro.



It just gets worse from there. 

I posted that instead of posting this it would be better if she helped try to repair the bridge so J can have that side of the family without me having to worry about what they are saying about me.

[cville]

They're terrible people, karma. The ugliness comes from deep within them. Remember, they've always been unkind to you, well before your husband died. This isn't about you or how you're handling everything. It's about them and their poison.

[pantsparty]

What a bitch. Fuck them all.

[macmars45]

(hugs) I'm so sorry.

[Deleted]

They are horrible, horrible people with ugly black hearts. Can you take an FB break and just stay off for awhile(weeks, months). You don't need to read that and get upset over those idiots.

[hisno1girl]

I want to get healthy, take a little road trip, and start kicking asses for you.

[dexteroni]

Oh my God. The only disgusting person here is your SIL. I'm so sorry you have to see those awful comments.

Can a surviving spouse really not have control over their spouse's page? That seems unfair.

[frkls]

even if people are replying to her in an effort to be supportive and sympathetic, i fucking PROMISE you that they are all thinking about how incredibly trashy and heartless it is to air your family's dirty laundry on her deceased brother's facebook page. they are thinking about how much she is hurting her own cause and increasing the distance between you. what an asshole.

[bcv513]

I'm so sorry karma. Remember that this is a reflection on them as humans not you. You are protecting your son

[flex]

I heard a great quote yesterday from Mark Twain: "Anger is an acid that can do more harm to the vessel in which it is stored than to anything on which it is poured." So even though it hurts you because she's pouring it on you, but wouldn't you just hate to live in her head? She's the one who is being poisoned by the acid, kwim?

[franklin]

I am amazed at how low they'll stoop just to spite you. They are awful people and you are just doing what's best for your son. It's their own fault they don't have a relationship with him anymore. I'm so sorry karma.

I'm sure you already have, but can you contact fb and ask them to no longer allow posts to his wall or whatever?

[ginger]

They are THE worst!

I'm so sorry.

[demofea01]

She's a fucking bitch. She deserves someone replying to tell her that it's probably because you don't want J around vile assholes simce that shit is clearly contagious within that side of the family.

[notoriousmeg]

I'm sorry, Karma. She is disgusting. I'm sure people know there is more to the story than she is posting.

[livinitup]

She's using her dead brother's FB page to shame you. To manipulate you to do something very bad for you and bad for your child.

I know it touches a nerve for you. But anyone who reads it sees her as a manipulative vampire. They see her badly.

Don't doubt it. And don't respond. Really.

[livinitup]

Dup.

[sparkythelawyer]

Shit pig = she is one.

[BirdGirl]

Can FB shut down the page? You could do a tribute page and invite only the people you want.

[intentionalsnarkshark]

This is further proof that you're making the right decision in limiting their access to J.

Huge hugs, dude.

[killercupcake]

FUCK. HER.

[smashley]

She is a total and complete fucking asshole and J is absolutely better off without these people in his life.

[AHappierHour]

I'm so sorry they are still putting you through this.

[10nille]

The people who are going to agree with her aren't people you should give a shit about either. This reflects very poorly on her. If I read it on FB I would think what the hell is wrong with her? She certainly justifies your decision. Toxic and J doesn't need their poison.

I'd contact FB and demand they take down his page or give you control over it. In the future don't respond to her vileness.

[ladystardust]

I'm so sorry you are being subjected to this attack. The restraint you are showing is truly amazing.

[cleo29]

One, shut down his page.

Two, I want to know it so I can start defending you. For real.

I understand they are dealing with their own loss, but lashing out at you is totally disgusting.

[greenlight]

All she did was validate your decision to cut them out. Now everyone will know just how ugly and cruel they have been to you. But how does she have control over his page? I would contact fb and shut his page down asap. Hugs

[jodinia]

She is a twatwaffle and I am sorry she keeps hurting you. (Hugs)

[BaliHai]

God, fuck these people.

[Deleted]

She is disgusting. I hope you are able to shut the FB page down so she can stop her filthy lies.

You were absolutely right to cut ties.

[circa1978]

Shut it down. If she's using the page to harass you, you can report it. Stay strong.