This is a link to help you get his page memorialized. He needs to be reported as deceased. This will prevent anyone from logging into it and blocking you, or taking pictures down. I'm not sure how to re-friend yourself.
I'm so sorry Karma. I feel like having FB take down his profile would be the best way to give him family a giant middle finger. Or report that his account has been hacked possibly?
You are his GD wife and, absent a will otherwise (and even with one in many states) you are the executrix/administratrix of his estate. Contact FB and if they are unwilling to assist you (I don't see why they won't) escalate it until you regain control of everything his. Bank accounts, credit cards, cars, house, SOCIAL MEDIA...anything that was his belongs to you and his children. NOT his father. NOT his sister.
Fuck them all and burn it down.
Or, remain calm, contact Facebook and quietly regain control and change all passwords. ***And then unfriend them all from his account. Middle finger right where it hurts. And make certain FB knows to not give them back any control. YOU are the wife and have control. I had to use passcodes on our old phone number once upon a time so that it couldn't be changed or disconnected. I was paying for it at XH's house and I'd be damned if I was going to pay for the long distance calls from his girlfriend's kids (now his wife) to their out-of-state dads. Stuff like that can be done pretty much for anyone.
Also, because I'm paranoid, have you contacted the credit bureaus to make certain they were notified and all know to freeze any credit inquiries?
I hate his family for you. They are lower than pond scum to put you through this hell.
Post by karmasabiotch on Feb 12, 2016 20:48:34 GMT -5
So any memories and pictures I would want to get off first if I can and then I probably should have the page deleted. They can start a new page but I don't need to know about it or see the posts.
I bet her and the other sister are thinking this is so funny.
I want to leave loving brother off the gravestone I'm ordering tomorrow so badly right now. I wonder if I'll hate myself if I do.
Her son texted me and said his Mom and Aunt are crazy and he's on my side. SS and SS older brother were also posting in my defense. At least there is that.
I think I'll just shut down my computer for the night and try to sleep. It's a game to them. It's real to me.
I'm so sorry; they're horrible people and I hope you're able to get FB to give you control of his account. Can you share a screenshot of the text with them proving his account was hacked?