I'm sorry cheshirekat. That sounds awful. R: DD is obsessed with HGTV. She will watch any show on there. She is my child. AW: DS scored his first basket at his basketball game today. I am proud of how hard he has worked and how much he has improved this season. V: Divorce sucks...well actually what sucks is having to share custody of my kids with STBXH. DD cries every time she has to go with her dad. She says she doesn't like going there because he doesn't do anything but watch TV. He doesn't cook and makes her eat at restaurants she hates because he wants to go there. She "just feels better when she is with mommy". It absolutely breaks my heart to make her go to his house. She was with me for a while today. We had a really fun day but as soon as she realized it was almost time to go back she started crying. She cried all the way to his house and I had to leave her crying. I cried all the way home. It sucks!
I can't even imagine how hard that must be for you. I was older when my parents divorced and I HATED going to my dad's. He didn't even spend time with us. It was just about winning for him. Eventually he lost interest and we didn't have to go anymore. Hope things get better for you.
Post by chatterbox on Feb 20, 2016 18:55:57 GMT -5
R: Found out the baby is no longer transverse and in 2 cm dilated at my OB appointment this week.
AW: I managed to keep the house clean this week despite being sick.
V: I feel miserable. DD and I have been sick all week and I'm not holding up as well this pregnancy. I feel like I've been kicked in the crotch and I'm so uncomfortable and worn down. At least I didn't catch DD's pink eye!
I'm sorry jnksmom, that sounds really heart-wrenching. I hope the adjustment gets easier as time goes on, and that your STBXH steps up his game and does fun stuff when he has the kids. ((hugs))