No. We have a king sized bed, so plenty of room for us to just pretend the other isn't there. But honestly, we don't really fight like that. I mean, we have fights of course, but not the kind where we feel like the other person needs to be in a different room. We're okay with cool indifference I guess?
Nope. We've only had one major/ didn't make-up before we went to sleep fight (in recent years) & like VillainV I Really appreciated the king size bed that night!
No. Early on DH refused, he said this is his bed too and I was too stubborn to do it because I WAS RIGHT DAMMIT and I shouldn't have to leave. So that just never became a thing for us.
Not because of a fight. Illness or just falling asleep watching tv, yes. But we also have a guest room if we feel the need to sleep somewhere else, which we haven't. Although H offered one time to sleep on the couch after we got into a fight, but I didn't make him.
DH has slept in the guestroom for years so I don't know what we'd do if there was that big of a fight. My kids are actually confused that he's going to sleep with me when MIL comes to visit. I'm not excited. I may actually make him sleep on the couch, lol!
Post by shamrockshake on May 1, 2016 8:50:08 GMT -5
Not because of a fight but DH sleeps on the couch pretty often. Our couch is so comfy and he likes to be up late, sometimes he'll just stay down here if he's afraid to wake me. Sometimes I ask him to if he's snoring too loudly
No. Honestly, we do have a guest room, but even when we have fought, no one has ever slept separately because of it. The only time one of us sleeps separately is when we're sick and can't sleep. I usually end up on the couch watching TV when I don't feel well.
No. H occasionally sleeps in the guest room if one of us is sick, but never bc we are mad. I've gone to bed frustrated or pissed, but not mad enough that I couldn't stand to be near him. When I get that mad I can't let something go till it's resolved. H prob finds it annoying, lol
No. H occasionally sleeps in the guest room if one of us is sick, but never bc we are mad. I've gone to bed frustrated or pissed, but not mad enough that I couldn't stand to be near him. When I get that mad I can't let something go till it's resolved. H prob finds it annoying, lol
Yeah, I need to hash it out otherwise I won't sleep and I'm sleep deprived enough already.
Honestly, I blame sleep deprivation for most of our arguments because it's usually because one of us said something in an annoyed tone and the other responded in an annoyed tone and then we argue about how annoyed we are that the other person is annoyed. LOL.
it's not like anyone is banished to the couch, but if we're in a fight we normally retreat to opposite ends of the house and whoever is in the living room often falls asleep there (intentionally) and stays put.
we don't fight often at all, but when we do? get the eff out of my face. lol.
it's not like anyone is banished to the couch, but if we're in a fight we normally retreat to opposite ends of the house and whoever is in the living room often falls asleep there (intentionally) and stays put.
we don't fight often at all, but when we do? get the eff out of my face. lol.
Lol. You are not alone. I just banished DH to one of the kid's rooms 2 weeks ago. It doesn't happen often but if we are fighting I want to be left the fuck alone!
I've banished my h to the couch/spare room /kids bed/I don't care where you sleep mofo, but it won't be with me. I'd say it happens once or twice a year.
I slept on the sofa once, because I didn't even want to look at his stupid face, but now I can't remember what we were arguing about, lol. H was so upset. He's the one that needs to hash things out immediately. I need time to process.