Oh wow, I'm so sorry she's done this to you. You're far classier and more patient than I think I would have been, particularly after all of the times (in the last two years!) she's posted about sending things to other people, working on her Etsy shop, etc...
I'm really sorry this is happening. At this point any response is better than no response at all. Any response is better than no response at all. Even if something did happen to the clothes I would think it would be easier to email you and be honest about it and move on from there. It must be exhausting actively avoiding someone for so long. It makes me wonder how many other people it has happened to.
I really hope you get an answer from her. Or better yet, your stuff back.
I would be really, really sad to lose all my favorite baby clothes. Hopefully she does the right thing and sends them back overnight express delivery now that this is public. It's such a shame because I always thought about buying from her shop but there seems to be a real lack of integrity here- there's no excuse for the no response, even if she doesn't have good news for you (i.e. Her basement flooded and the box was ruined or similar).
Fuck, this makes me SO angry. With all of the support she's gotten and how quickly she jumped to playing the victim when anyone even so much as started to question anything. Don't be shady and fuck shit up for other people.
And you were called a mean girl if you said anything different.
KA was hung out to dry with her over the etsy review and it was TOTALLY baseless.
It is 6 in the morning and I am hot about this lol.
When all that terrible shit went down earlier this year she came in inserted herself into the drama. Made everyone feel sympathy for her. Talked about how awful people were. She even called KA out on an etsy review. NO ONE could even defend KA because it was so volatile.
Then old threads start getting brought up and a whole bunch of people were called out to how they were mean to her. And sure people cold have been nicer to her, but whatever.
And then look she has been shady this whole time, as suspected by many.
It is 6 in the morning and I am hot about this lol.
When all that terrible shit went down earlier this year she came in inserted herself into the drama. Made everyone feel sympathy for her. Talked about how awful people were. She even called KA out on an etsy review. NO ONE could even defend KA because it was so volatile.
Then old threads start getting brought up and a whole bunch of people were called out to how they were mean to her. And sure people cold have been nicer to her, but whatever.
And then look she has been shady this whole time, as suspected by many.
UWR I really hope you get these clothes back.
Yes!!!!! I had to quote because this is so accurate. The way she inserted herself in what happened before was so ridiculous. And blaming KA with no proof. I questioned her before but I definitely knew then she wasn't all she claimed to be.
I've saved a few special outfits from when both kids were infants and would be so sad to lose them. I have dresses my mom saved from when I was little, too.
I hope you get an honest answer from her. You don't deserve this.
I'm so sorry UWR. I purge everything, and still have a box of C's baby things; I definitely get it. Hopefully she has enough decency to give you a response.
Fuck, this makes me SO angry. With all of the support she's gotten and how quickly she jumped to playing the victim when anyone even so much as started to question anything. Don't be shady and fuck shit up for other people.
And you were called a mean girl if you said anything different.
KA was hung out to dry with her over the etsy review and it was TOTALLY baseless.
@jezebel (ETA: what did I fuck up there?) and I and a couple others I can remember, maybe knx9211?, pointed out the consistencies with the dentist guy and she totally evaded the obvious I'm an attempt o keep the drama going.
No, July 2015. Almost a year after UWR sent her stuff.
UWR you are one of the best people I "know". I'm sorry this happened to you
Wasnt squirrelly the one you and I got flames for throwing shade at?
To be fair it was the 'just go get a second job' right after F's surgery that got pushback. I'm not really sure that Squirrely doing a shitty thing now negates that which was just an awful thing to say.
I understand UWR feeling conflicted on this. Squirrely has had more on her plate than anyone could reasonably be expected to handle and if she couldn't manage to make the quilt then I have a feeling UWR would have been very understanding over that. But why lie about it? That's the part in really struggling with. Just say you can't manage it. I'm really sorry UWR. : (
Wasnt squirrelly the one you and I got flames for throwing shade at?
To be fair it was the 'just go get a second job' right after F's surgery that got pushback. I'm not really sure that Squirrely doing a shitty thing now negates that which was just an awful thing to say.
I understand UWR feeling conflicted on this. Squirrely has had more on her plate than anyone could reasonably be expected to handle and if she couldn't manage to make the quilt then I have a feeling UWR would have been very understanding over that. But why lie about it? That's the part in really struggling with. Just say you can't manage it. I'm really sorry UWR. : (
All this. And, Elsa herself apologized more than once. Even with everything going on with UWR, it still was a lousy comment.
To be fair it was the 'just go get a second job' right after F's surgery that got pushback. I'm not really sure that Squirrely doing a shitty thing now negates that which was just an awful thing to say.
I understand UWR feeling conflicted on this. Squirrely has had more on her plate than anyone could reasonably be expected to handle and if she couldn't manage to make the quilt then I have a feeling UWR would have been very understanding over that. But why lie about it? That's the part in really struggling with. Just say you can't manage it. I'm really sorry UWR. : (
All this. And, Elsa herself apologized more than once. Even with everything going on with UWR, it still was a lousy comment.
The KA accusation is a whole different story.
What was the KA accusation? I knew she said she was upset with KA making passive aggressive remarks to her about shipping out free gifts to people which seemed a reasonable thing to be upset about, but I didn't see anything more than that.
All this. And, Elsa herself apologized more than once. Even with everything going on with UWR, it still was a lousy comment.
The KA accusation is a whole different story.
What was the KA accusation? I knew she said she was upset with KA making passive aggressive remarks to her about shipping out free gifts to people which seemed a reasonable thing to be upset about, but I didn't see anything more than that.
She had a bad review in her etsy shop and accused KA of writing it, IIRC