This was hashed out a long time ago on TN; we found a bunch of these blogs. It's a fetish sort of thing cloaked in Christianity for the most part, imo. Which -- hey, I mean, if this is how you get your kicks when you're living an otherwise fairly repressed lifestyle? Eh. I'm not judging. I don't get it, but if it's not doing any harm and both parties are consenting, I don't see it as any different from any other kink.
I don't know. The way I read it, the guys gets off controlling and abusing his wife, and she is brainwashed into thinking it is ok.
Yuck. She blows his to show her gratitude for her maintenance spanking? The whole idea of maintenance punishment is fucked but the thanking makes it worse.
Post by pantsparty on Sept 5, 2012 14:34:56 GMT -5
What bothers me most is the road doesn't seem to go both ways. The man never needs corrective action? If this is your fetish, own it. But don't pretend like the wife is fucking everything up while the husband remains perfect.
I also feel really, REALLY squicky about this around kids. What a terrible message to pass along.