I have 3 offers.

[Deleted]

If that matters to you I'd totally ask for it.

And OMG!!!!! So amazing. I want to be you

[pugz]

Is Director > Senior Manager? I vote #3 just to try something new although I get the appeal of taking a job where you know what you are getting into.

also you are a BAMF and I know Hermie will be proud.

[Deleted]

OH, did both have job descriptions? Maybe compare the two and highlight the similarities. Then you can say "this job lists these same five things as director functions. Plus I have x,y, z experience which also relates."

Im iffy on how to word the rest. "Would you?" Seems too passive somehow. "I'm very interested but the title is holding me back from accepting. Can we discuss changing it to something more in line with,.."?

[thedutchgirl]

How's the upward mobility at each?

Congratulations!

[MixedBerryJam]

What kind of commute is number 3? I totally get the advantages to taking a risk on a new role, new company, new challenges, etc., and I don't want to minimize them, but a short commute is worth megabucks to me. If you go back to the old place are you at risk of them pigeonholing you in your old role there which could undermine your new role? I might worry about that, depending on the people, but I'd really have to think long and hard about a long commute. Especially if you'd have to drive it, even if it's only 2 or 3 days a week, because that's lost time you'll never get back. If you were on a train for 90 minutes that would be different, too, but I'm guessing that's not the case here. Good luck, whatever you decide! Woo hoo!

ETA: Based you @32flavors' question and your answer, I vote 1.

[lexxasaurus]

Knowing the answer to why you left 1, I'd definitely choose that one. It's an opportunity you didn't have available but wanted, plus a short commute.

[MixedBerryJam]

Jun 22, 2016 17:09:33 GMT -5 @32flavors said:

Jun 22, 2016 17:05:56 GMT -5 mp said:

I liked it. I wanted to grow and the path wasn't really there at the time on the team I worked in. This would have been the role I would have wanted had i stayed.

My only hesitation is that the role of Director may be more challenging and allow you to grow more. But a title doesn't always mean that much. Consider the work you would do at each and if you think you would enjoy the day to day while growing your skills.

Also, how realistic is it that the Director wouldn't actually have to be there most days? I wonder how much telecommuting you'll actually get to do. (OP I mean)

[sequins]

I'm so happy for you. Congratulations!! You totally kicked ass.

[meganew]

I'm shit at negotiating, so no advice there, but dude!! Congrats!!

[meganew]

wait, if you live where I think you live then I'd definitely choose #1. A long commute there would be hell.

[Jalapeñomel]

Congrats!!

[Deleted]

#1 all the way. That commute would wear you down quick. Congrats on all the offers!!

[lovelyshoes]

Congratulations! You let the bad out of your life and the good flows in! I know that's corny, but it's true. So happy for you.
I'd honestly go for 1 and negotiate the title. This is great news all around!

[AHappierHour]

#1 because of the short commute. LA traffic sucks ass

[cereal K]

Jun 22, 2016 17:10:52 GMT -5 MixedBerryJam said:

Jun 22, 2016 17:09:33 GMT -5 @32flavors said:

My only hesitation is that the role of Director may be more challenging and allow you to grow more. But a title doesn't always mean that much. Consider the work you would do at each and if you think you would enjoy the day to day while growing your skills.

Also, how realistic is it that the Director wouldn't actually have to be there most days? I wonder how much telecommuting you'll actually get to do. (OP I mean)

I’m almost certain that we’re in very different fields/industries, but I only telecommute maybe 2-3 times a month. I travel about the same, but combined that’s about as much time out of the office as I’m comfortable with in the same role. Our company has a telecommuting policy that would allow for one day a week, but I don’t even do that because I feel like I need to be in the office to support my team or cross-functional partners.SaveSave

[cereal K]

And, congrats mp! I think option #1 sounds good for a lot of reasons, with or without the title, so long as it’s what you want to do, and you can continue to develop/have longevity there.

[cereal K]

Jun 22, 2016 18:07:07 GMT -5 mp said:

Jun 22, 2016 18:05:06 GMT -5 cereal K said:

I’m almost certain that we’re in very different fields/industries, but I only telecommute maybe 2-3 times a month. I travel about the same, but combined that’s about as much time out of the office as I’m comfortable with in the same role. Our company has a telecommuting policy that would allow for one day a week, but I don’t even do that because I feel like I need to be in the office to support my team or cross-functional partners.SaveSave

The person who would be my boss in that role commutes 2x/week.

Ah, see - there ya go. Different areas and cultures mean everything, right? I think a lot of the dynamics are changing re: who needs to be in a physical space when and for how long. As long as the work gets done and people are available, it all works!SaveSave

[tripleshot]

#1! Congrats!

[Deleted]

Fuck yeah 'Murica!! You go with your bad self and lean all the way in.

[Vally]

Exciting !

[spedrunner]

I am SOOOOOOOOOOO happy for you!!

I hope your luck passes along to me. I have a few interviews coming up and am hoping for some offers!! xoxo

[1confused1]

I'm happy for you! Good luck with your decision.

[Deleted]

This is incredible. I know it was a big leap of faith for you to leave your last position, but look how quickly you launched into something better!

I'd go for #1. You know what you're getting into, and a good commute adds so much to quality of life.

[jenna]

#1 congratulations!

[ProfessorArtNerd]

Rock. Star. You go, girl!

[cville]

That's fantastic!

[Deleted]

Great news!  I'm glad you have so many options!  Based on things you've said, both 1 and 3 have benefits.  Definitely think it over and go with your gut.  

[sofamonkey]

Fuck yeah!!!!!! You go, badass!

[cville]

Jun 22, 2016 21:49:58 GMT -5 mp said:

Jun 22, 2016 21:32:09 GMT -5 cville said:

That's fantastic!

Psst - I sent you a PM earlier. don't know if you saw it or not.  

I can't see them on the app . I'll check in the morning!


ETA:  you are the best!

[dreamcrisp1]

Not surprised. Go you!