I got a text from a friend this morning announcing her engagement....my first thought is "reaaaaalllyyyy bad idea" but I responded with "holy shit, congrats". She cheated on her first husband, after convincing him to join the Marines so he'd be gone all the time.
I'm hating on myself quite a bit this week....I've had way too many "woe-is-me" moments in the past 7 days and I hate that. I know I'm ridiculously awesome but I can't get out of my own head this week.
My foot is STILL jacked up and is worse in different situations (wearing shoes vs. barefoot vs. wrapped) and I'm currently avoiding going into the MD because I'm not really interested in having to pay out the ass to meet my deductible.
Post by starburst604 on Sept 7, 2012 9:47:30 GMT -5
I don't usually have these but today I do. Last night I stayed at T's and was home alone for a couple of hours while he played basketball. He has a pile of boxes in a closet, he's mentioned before he tossed them in there when he moved in 3 yrs ago and he needs to go through and make room for me when I move in. Soooooo I was bored and I decided to poke through them. Mostly nothing interesting, photo albums, his wedding photo albums, then at the bottom there was this Hallmark album that his last gf had put together, a scrapbookish sort of thing in a box. When I picked it up, two loose photos were at the bottom of the box. Yeah....they weren't PG. I can't get his ex-gf's boobs out of my head today. I'm sure he probably doesn't even realize they're in there, but they gotta go. Maybe I will take care of that for him?
I like dating because it's economically efficient. Free dinners are worth it, especially when I get to try new restaurants
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Thank you because you make me feel better
I was telling Doris that I was feeling guilty for hanging out with M. I mean, he is nice and we have fun, but I am not interested in dating him long term. But he takes me out to nice dinners and invites me out on his boat. He is a good distraction though :Y:
I was telling Doris that I was feeling guilty for hanging out with M. I mean, he is nice and we have fun, but I am not interested in dating him long term. But he takes me out to nice dinners and invites me out on his boat. He is a good distraction though
If he has a boat, enjoy it. You deserve it! Unless he thinks he's going to marry you and you're leading him on, enjoy dating!
Yeah, I don't think he is too serious about it. I mean, I know he digs me but Doris said she thinks part of the attraction is because I am demanding and unavailable therefore I am a challenge.
If he has a boat, enjoy it. You deserve it! Unless he thinks he's going to marry you and you're leading him on, enjoy dating!
Yeah, I don't think he is too serious about it. I mean, I know he digs me but Doris said she thinks part of the attraction is because I am demanding and unavailable therefore I am a challenge.
It's allllll true!!! You're a hot challenge for him....let him woo you!
Post by liubotflittyfud on Sept 7, 2012 10:50:21 GMT -5
You ladies make me smile. Just saying
My confession: I came clean to J last night. I told him that I have an attraction to work dude and we are friends and it scares the shit out of me because I don't want to be with anyone else but J. I cried my face off and he didn't know how to swallow it. He told me this morning that he was very happy that I could tell him things like that and he loves me and would really like to make us work. He knows that because I can share the truth that he has no worries and trusts me completely. I'm so glad I told him. I woke up late with him, cuddled, and we had some great morning sex. I've never felt my relationship be this strong before. I'm really really relieved and happy that I told him. I'm done with work dude. I don't want to lose something so good with J because I'm a twat that can't make up my mind EVER.
My confession: I came clean to J last night. I told him that I have an attraction to work dude and we are friends and it scares the shit out of me because I don't want to be with anyone else but J. I cried my face off and he didn't know how to swallow it. He told me this morning that he was very happy that I could tell him things like that and he loves me and would really like to make us work. He knows that because I can share the truth that he has no worries and trusts me completely. I'm so glad I told him. I woke up late with him, cuddled, and we had some great morning sex. I've never felt my relationship be this strong before. I'm really really relieved and happy that I told him. I'm done with work dude. I don't want to lose something so good with J because I'm a twat that can't make up my mind EVER.
Poor J, you meanie! If my bf ever came home and told me he was attracted to someone at work, allllll hell would break loose!
My confession: I came clean to J last night. I told him that I have an attraction to work dude and we are friends and it scares the shit out of me because I don't want to be with anyone else but J. I cried my face off and he didn't know how to swallow it. He told me this morning that he was very happy that I could tell him things like that and he loves me and would really like to make us work. He knows that because I can share the truth that he has no worries and trusts me completely. I'm so glad I told him. I woke up late with him, cuddled, and we had some great morning sex. I've never felt my relationship be this strong before. I'm really really relieved and happy that I told him. I'm done with work dude. I don't want to lose something so good with J because I'm a twat that can't make up my mind EVER.
Poor J, you meanie! If my bf ever came home and told me he was attracted to someone at work, allllll hell would break loose!
I'm gonna be honest here, I really question J here....that's not a "normal" reaction to that sort of news.
My confession: I came clean to J last night. I told him that I have an attraction to work dude and we are friends and it scares the shit out of me because I don't want to be with anyone else but J. I cried my face off and he didn't know how to swallow it. He told me this morning that he was very happy that I could tell him things like that and he loves me and would really like to make us work. He knows that because I can share the truth that he has no worries and trusts me completely. I'm so glad I told him. I woke up late with him, cuddled, and we had some great morning sex. I've never felt my relationship be this strong before. I'm really really relieved and happy that I told him. I'm done with work dude. I don't want to lose something so good with J because I'm a twat that can't make up my mind EVER.
Poor J, you meanie! If my bf ever came home and told me he was attracted to someone at work, allllll hell would break loose!
Poor J, you meanie! If my bf ever came home and told me he was attracted to someone at work, allllll hell would break loose!
I'm gonna be honest here, I really question J here....that's not a "normal" reaction to that sort of news.
Oh he had some alone time and some vodka to deal with it, which I'm not 100% okay with him drowning his sorrows but he doesn't do it often.
I thought I should be honest. J and I have a weird relationship where we tell each other EVERYTHING. I didn't want to hurt him. I never want to hurt him. He's a passive sweetheart. But for me, bringing the situation out into the light and putting it on the table for discussion makes me feel better. I know that's selfish and I never ever wanted him to hurt, but I wanted him to know how I felt so we could move past this together.
I don't think you are actually attracted to or like the work dude. I think you just like the attention. Figure out why you need this kind of attention all the time or else you are going to keep falling for it. Why isn't J's attention enough for you? Is he not giving you something you need or will you never be satisfied with one guy's attn b/c you need constant attention to feel good about yourself and validated? I think you are starting to realize all of this but keep working on it and make sure you really understand the deeper issue.
I don't think you are actually attracted to or like the work dude. I think you just like the attention. Figure out why you need this kind of attention all the time or else you are going to keep falling for it. Why isn't J's attention enough for you? Is he not giving you something you need or will you never be satisfied with one guy's attn b/c you need constant attention to feel good about yourself and validated? I think you are starting to realize all of this but keep working on it and make sure you really understand the deeper issue.
This is allllll going back to what we said when we told you you weren't ready to date J. You shouldn't need male attention, you do. From J, from work guy, etc. You need to be in a good place where just YOU liking you is enough. You aren't. I think you have made a lot of progress, but you aren't there yet. I still think you should break up with J, be single and figure out who YOU are. Once you do that, if J is still there and you are still into him, THEN maybe it can work.
Oh, yeah, if H came hyome and told me he was attrated to a girl at work, I may very well leave, or else it would be a huge fight that included him finding a new job and counseling. NOT cool, and his reaction is weird.
OH! And my confession, I have a LOT of work to do today, but I am on here, because I am a bad employee.
I was telling Doris that I was feeling guilty for hanging out with M. I mean, he is nice and we have fun, but I am not interested in dating him long term. But he takes me out to nice dinners and invites me out on his boat. He is a good distraction though
If he has a boat, enjoy it. You deserve it! Unless he thinks he's going to marry you and you're leading him on, enjoy dating!
Oh hell yeah. I went straight to his place from the airport when I got home from Texas on Monday. And then again at 2am that morning... and then again last night
Oh hell yeah. I went straight to his place from the airport when I got home from Texas on Monday. And then again at 2am that morning... and then again last night
I really wish I was cut out for the FWB thing more, but alas, I am not. I never texted the 23 YO again about meeting up and then I freaked out because I thought I saw him in town and I didn't know how to react. Obviously I cannot play things cool, and therefore shouldn't proceed with something like that.
But I really miss having sex and I get horny. Guess it's time to stock up on batteries again. ::sighs::