Oh M, you're so right. It's not fair and you're doing it anyway bc you have to. We love you and will do anything we can for you. I'm so sorry. This wasn't supposed to be.
Oh M! Huge huge hugs. It's not how things were supposed to happen and it's absolutely unfair. It's ok not to be strong-- we love you and are here for you.
It isn't fair at all. It's the most unfair. It's ok to struggle, you've lost your partner in life and parenting and nobody expects you to be ok. You are being strong for the boys and that is amazing. You are amazing. You don't deserve this. I'm so sorry
I can't imagine the struggle. I wish I could at least come and spoon with you. It's not the same, but it's at least something. Just know that you are amazing and you can do this. You deserve so much better. But you can show your boys what strong really is. Love you so much
I am so incredibly sorry for the pain you're in. It isn't fair. I'm so sorry you're going through this. I think about you constantly. I wish there were something I could say or do to ease your pain. Just know we are all here for you anytime, and you can lean on us for anything.
I'm so sorry that this is your reality now. It's not fair to you or your boys. You continue to be in my prayers and while you don't want to wish away time, I hope for a day when these feelings are less raw for you.