Well, now that you're here...how are you doing? Are you ok?
Yes, things have improved tremendously. One of the things I didn't mention when I first posted was that I had gone back to school, and my school was quite a distance from H's work. He offered at the time to continue to support me while I finished my degree, but living in separate households would have meant going days at a stretch without seeing my very young child, or quitting school. That was one of the main reasons why I felt like I couldn't leave yet. We continued counseling and slept apart for a long time.
When I graduated a couple years ago, I got an offer for my dream job in a region that I wanted to move to. He quit his job that he loved and started his career over in a different industry to move with me. All of the #metoo reports have brought up a lot of painful memories. He has been really considerate of my feelings and still tells me often how ashamed he is for nearly destroying our marriage. Without getting into it too much, he exhibits a totally different mindset now than he did when we got married. Knowing what I know now, I should not have married him. But I am glad that we're still married.
Your ability to forgive it much higher than mine. I hope things continue to go well for you.
She hated me so hard. I remember one of the major throw downs started from her Maria "ethnic" name issue because I liked a post from @starlily calling her out. She never said anything to starlily or to another poster who directly said something to her she started going crazy on me for liking a damn post.
She also called me a “fucking bitch” bc I called her out for making a separate SN to continue to talk about Pokémon. She’s probably still here somewhere.
Seriously?? What a tool LOL. If you do something silly and ridiculous, be prepared to be mocked for it.