I'm at my NST and found out my son can't visit us at the hospital, at all. I know it's a common policy and it's flu season, but I'm legitimately about to cry.
I'll take hair pats and stories about how it will be okay, if you have them.
Awww that sucks, I'm sorry. I would feel the same way. No anecdotes/stories here, just hugs and hair pats.
Maybe it's better in a way, so that your son can meet baby at home in a comfortable environment.
I'm at my NST and found out my son can't visit us at the hospital, at all. I know it's a common policy and it's flu season, but I'm legitimately about to cry.
I'll take hair pats and stories about how it will be okay, if you have them.
We were torn about whether we wanted our daughter to visit in the hospital, and ultimately decided that it would be fine either way. We were thinking that home might be a more comfortable place for her to meet the baby.
I'm at my NST and found out my son can't visit us at the hospital, at all. I know it's a common policy and it's flu season, but I'm legitimately about to cry.
I'll take hair pats and stories about how it will be okay, if you have them.
Oh that sucks, especially this late.Do you anticipate being there longer than 24 hours?
Maybe you can enlist help so your DS can help have a bday cupcake or something waiting? Turn the crappy waiting into a fun job for him?
I'm at my NST and found out my son can't visit us at the hospital, at all. I know it's a common policy and it's flu season, but I'm legitimately about to cry.
I'll take hair pats and stories about how it will be okay, if you have them.
Awww that sucks, I'm sorry. I would feel the same way. No anecdotes/stories here, just hugs and hair pats.
Maybe it's better in a way, so that your son can meet baby at home in a comfortable environment.
True, good point. And I know rationally not only is it better that he not be in the hospital, but also that he doesn't get confused or upset that he's not coming home with us. But man, it's hard. He's my baby:(.
I'm at my NST and found out my son can't visit us at the hospital, at all. I know it's a common policy and it's flu season, but I'm legitimately about to cry.
I'll take hair pats and stories about how it will be okay, if you have them.
Oh that sucks, especially this late.Do you anticipate being there longer than 24 hours?
Maybe you can enlist help so your DS can help have a bday cupcake or something waiting? Turn the crappy waiting into a fun job for him?
I'm having a repeat c/s, so I'll be there for about 3 days or so. He does love staying with my mom (she's his primary caregiver), so, ironically, he probably won't even notice we're gone, lol.
A lot of people have suggested a gift from the baby, but he's only 18 months. Do you think he'll get it, at this point? Food is his life, so a cupcake is a great idea!
Awww that sucks, I'm sorry. I would feel the same way. No anecdotes/stories here, just hugs and hair pats.
Maybe it's better in a way, so that your son can meet baby at home in a comfortable environment.
True, good point. And I know rationally not only is it better that he not be in the hospital, but also that he doesn't get confused or upset that he's not coming home with us. But man, it's hard. He's my baby:(.
Oh that sucks, especially this late.Do you anticipate being there longer than 24 hours?
Maybe you can enlist help so your DS can help have a bday cupcake or something waiting? Turn the crappy waiting into a fun job for him?
I'm having a repeat c/s, so I'll be there for about 3 days or so. He does love staying with my mom (she's his primary caregiver), so, ironically, he probably won't even notice we're gone, lol.
A lot of people have suggested a gift from the baby, but he's only 18 months. Do you think he'll get it, at this point? Food is his life, so a cupcake is a great idea!
My first was not quite 20 months when our second was born and I don’t think he would have gotten who the gift was from just that he got a toy. So we had a few new things stashed away to bring our on tough days when he needed to be distracted or cheered up. At 20 months he was just starting to understand birthday parties (mostly that they meant cake) so that was a big hit at our house.
Now they are going to be 5.5 and almost 4 when #3 is born so we are doing a gift from baby. My sister is watching them when I’m at the hospital and is going to have them make a birthday cake for baby.
I actually don't know if DD will be able to visit me and the baby in the hospital. This time of year I know the answer would be no, but I'm not due until 6/5 so it may be different outside of flu season. I'm hoping for a stay as short as possible, and she'll be with a grandparent for as long as I'm gone, so hopefully it'll be ok.
Post by KellyEasterbrook on Feb 6, 2019 18:14:07 GMT -5
1. 22w+5d
2.We had our fetal echo yesterday and it went so well. AND it only took 20 minutes. With our last pregnancy, the fetal echoes were min. 90 minutes, so this was just unreal. I guess it's a lot quicker when everything looks good! We're starting to think we may actually come home with a baby after this pregnancy. And I'm next to positive I don't have the measles! (Being stressed out for this echo + getting notice from the state health department that I've been exposed to measles was just not a good combination, even if I am 99% sure I was vaccinated as a kid).
3. Let's say you're almost 23 weeks along and other than going to doctor's appointments and finding a good massage therapist, you've done absolutely no prep. What are the top three things you would prioritize planning/purchasing/etc at this point?
4. Favorite - just knowing I'm able to get pregnant again was such a relief. DH has been amazing through all of this, and it's really brought us even closer together. Least favorite - the PGAL stress has been insane. And with a later term loss, passing those usual first tri milestones didn't bring much relief. Figuring out how to grieve for our daughter (we lost her this summer), while also getting excited about her sister has been a challenge. I've also spent the better part of the past year with these two pregnancies either on modified bedrest or in such pain I needed help to maneuver to the bathroom. I really miss being in shape.
I probably would start working on a registry. That way you can see what all is recommended and figure out what you want because there are a million different options for each thing. Then, when you are ready to buy, you can have it in just a few days. At a minimum you will want immediately: - a place for baby to sleep. We used a pack and play in the beginning. - diapers. If you want a no brainer I'd go with N and size 1 pampers swaddlers - wipes. I'm a fan of water wipes. - clothes, size 0-3. A handful of tops, pants and sleepers. Along those lines, swaddled. We preferred muslin blankets the best. - containment device. Something like an infant to toddler rocker (our choice), rock and play, swing, etc.
Update on me after my OB appointment... my bedrest truly is relaxed. She basically said when I start contracting/ get uncomfortable, then sit down. But I am able to do easy household chores.
We moved up my ultrasound to check placental placement from 37w1d, to 35w6d, so next Wednesday! Yay! Neither of us believe I'll make it to 40 weeks, so this gives us some more time to plan on either a scheduled c-section or vaginal delivery. If I am able to deliver vaginally, I still don't want to be induced until 40 weeks. I just believe that I'll go into labor on my own before then.
I did have a cervical check today, and these contractions are doing *something*. I'm 1 cm now, whereas I was completely closed 2 weeks ago. I wasn't dilated at all until like 38 weeks last time.
Post by cherryvalance on Feb 6, 2019 20:20:28 GMT -5
KellyEasterbrook, yay, that's awesome news!! I'm so sorry for your loss and I'm sure this is a non stop emotional roller coaster.
I would also do a registry right away, so you know what you want.
I found it extremely stressful not to have a nursery done with DS, because I felt it would never get done if we didn't do it then. This time, we're just painting Dd's room now, 13 days out. So I don't advise that, lol! You don't need a set nursery when the baby first gets here, but if its important, start that now, while you have more energy and time.
pooh8402, how did you deliver last time? I forget why you might be scheduled.
But damn, this baby wants to meet you!
omg he does! My first was quite comfy where he was, lol. This one wants OUT.
I was induced last time, but it was a pretty easy vaginal delivery at 40w1d.
I have a marginal placenta previa. My placenta is not touching my cervix, but the edge is within 2 cm of it, so I run the risk of severe bleeding if I were to dilate. If we can show on ultrasound that it has moved up and away by at least 2 cm, then I can proceed with a vaginal delivery. Otherwise, it will be a scheduled c-section, likely at 38 weeks.
I just double checked what baby clothes we have from 0-3 months and 3-6 months. We are set for 0-3 but 3-6 has literally 6 outfits but at least has 5 pajamas too. I'm actually pretty unbothered by this LOL poor 3rd child
pooh8402, how did you deliver last time? I forget why you might be scheduled.
But damn, this baby wants to meet you!
omg he does! My first was quite comfy where he was, lol. This one wants OUT.
I was induced last time, but it was a pretty easy vaginal delivery at 40w1d.
I have a marginal placenta previa. My placenta is not touching my cervix, but the edge is within 2 cm of it, so I run the risk of severe bleeding if I were to dilate. If we can show on ultrasound that it has moved up and away by at least 2 cm, then I can proceed with a vaginal delivery. Otherwise, it will be a scheduled c-section, likely at 38 weeks.
Ah, I do remember now. Fingers crossed for an easy delivery, either way!
I also feel like this baby can't wait to come. My son was just hanging out, peaceful, did not cooperate during my induction, etc. This one is kicking me lile she can come out Alien style. Any trouble she can cause, she does. Second children? 🤦♀️🤷♀️
Post by FishChicks on Feb 10, 2019 21:55:37 GMT -5
turbo Thank you for thinking of us! We're actually back in the hospital after I was getting painful contractions every 7 minutes. Goal is to keep me pregnant through a rescue course of steroids, then most likely deliver on Tuesday. We'll be 30 weeks then, which is so much earlier than I wanted, but better than 27 when we got here the first time! Such a roller-coaster pregnancy.
Oh man FishChicks. I hope they can keep those babies cooking a little longer, but I'll also send good vibes for an easy delivery and quick recovery in the NICU for those little babies. Hugs!