He has always creeped me out. I'm really not a fan of the culty self-help gurus who take little tiny bits of psychology and then twist them for their own benefit.
I also think there's an overemphasis on a twisted version of survivorship, or transitioning from victim to survivor. It feels like there's an overemphasis on not calling out what the other person did as wrong, but instead just releasing it without it being okay to say that they harmed you.
I'm really disgusted by what I read about how he treated victims and survivors of abuse and violence. It's absolutely awful.